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Getting old costs too much. I went in for pelvic pain and ended up with a hysterectomy. I went to get some back pain addressed and was told I need a hip replacement. I went in for a physical because it was time and need a colonoscopy because I am that age. I have. Realize that if I really want to see well, I am going to have to invest in bifocals. And my hair stylist just told me that white hair doesn't hold color well just as I was thinking about hiding the white streaks. And my teeth need some attention too. I don't feel that old but my body is trying to prove wrong. Blah
 

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I hear ya.

I'm a bad patient. I have to be on my deathbed before I'll
go in for anything more than the routine med-check every
6 months for an RX I'm taking. Oh, and the one time the
rotator-cuff in my shoulder was hurting for some strange
reason (evidently I slept on it wrong), and the occasional
earwax-irrigation treatment (when I'm unsuccessful in
clearing the impaction myself at home).

And I haven't been to my dentist in years. I figure why
bother; if there is anything seriously wrong, it's not as
though I'd be able to afford fixing it anyway. So far,
nothing seems amiss either dentally or physically (knock
on wood).


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I so relate. If my new Dr. had his way, I'd be seeing him every 3 months. I'm also very bad about going in when I feel something is going on or I'm in pain. I figure with the joint pain (arthritis) what else can they do? I also don't like that sense that I'm being exploited, so I don't go in unless I feel it's something serious...
 
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Ok, I am the opposite. I am finally getting in to the doctors to make sure that I stay ahead of the part of aging that makes you get old sooner and limits a person's quality of life. I see daily what happens when people ignore their health at the stages that things can reversed or at least slow down the effects. I want to be the young 80 year old and not the old 60 year old.

Pain makes people stop moving which is one the biggest factors which reduces physical health and mobility.
 
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Thankfully I don't have pain unless I really over do it. I find winter keeps me from getting the exercise I should get thought. Last summer I got in good enough shape to hike Mt. Washington in NH. While I did some walking this winter I did no jogging and so am not in the shape I should be in. But after 3 weeks of a sinus infection, I'm starting to get out walking again and hopefully some jogs pretty soon. Tho still a lot of snow here.
 
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How old are you Blackribbon? My best friend in Arizona is in excellent health, works out every day, very positive attitude, strong Believer, just a very happy and fun guy.

He had a hip replacement at 60, which I thought was way too young.
 
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Pain and suffering will be a lot easier to deal with if one knows the purpose and it will accomplish a goal. I understood the Bible talks about character building (James 1) and what Paul said about reliant on God and bring him glory. But when one feel like a mouse in a treadmill, day in and day put with chronic aliment and what comes with aging, it is very frustrating. Seems pain is more breaking me down than building me up.
Being 62, I resign to the fact that my eye ailment (orbital hemangioma) since I was in grade 7 with headache and insomnia that comes, along foot deformity will not go away.

I find comfort in looking up to those who are less fortunate and suffer a lot more than me like the heroic war veterans who are disable in the prime of their life, and people like Joni Eareckson Tada. I still have her 1st book and memorized II Corinthians 4:8-10. God's word is what ultimately help us triumph over adversity. Hope keep us going

Revelation 21 is so beautiful
Then I saw “a new heaven and a new earth,”for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. 2 I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. 3 And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. 4 ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death’ or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.”
 
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How old are you Blackribbon? My best friend in Arizona is in excellent health, works out every day, very positive attitude, strong Believer, just a very happy and fun guy.

He had a hip replacement at 60, which I thought was way too young.

I am 52. The primary reason for this early needs seems to be a shallow hip joints from birth. My doc wants to follow my daughter. I don't actually have to get it done until it hurts too much to deal with. I have hip and back pain but am still not sure how much has to do with my surgery in Oct. Limping for two months prior to the surgery also may have cause the joint damage to speed up ...which seems likely since the other joint is okay for the time being. My primary pain is still in a spot that doesn't appear to be normal hip referred pain. I have days that are better than others. I use minimal pain meds finally and usually only wear a single brace to work when at the worse, I was wearing 3 (thigh, hips, and back). However, my mind plays tricks and because I know I have a cause for pain, I think I feel it more.
 
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I have a lot more understanding for those with chronic pain now and in some ways, I think it is worse that acute pain because with acute pain, you know that relief is in your future.
 
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I agree. Because ,I do not want to spend most of my retirement in a Doctor's Office Waiting Room.
 
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I have a chronic condition called Lyme Disease, as well as a few other ailments. I have to go to the Dr.'s every few months for these. I take something like 10 prescriptions. I am paying 3 hospital bills, because the first one they took me to could not solve my problem(s). Thankfully one of the H.'s gave me financial assistance, but the other two, I am paying the full co-pays. UGH! I hear ya!!!
 
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I agree with all your post and feel similarly. They are some of my
favourite Bible passages especially 21:4,
sounds a bit selfish but daily pain drives you down, had it for well over 20 years (am 59)
So I can relate to your post.
I say to anyone who can keep themselves going well- Go for it.
I do take great comfort in knowing that if what started me painwise had not happened I would be in a totally different place and I know its easy to say now, but I can see Gods hand all along. Don't get me wrong, I hate the pain and constant meds etc and monthly doctors appts but I am truly thankful as I know that wherever I am in life is where God wants me to be. I read in a devotional by JC Rule that there is no such thing for a Christian as luck, everything that happens to us Christians God for knew. And He is by our side all the way.
I do have to remind myself of this when having a hard day though.....
 
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