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Buskanaka

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asking someone out like that isn't proposing or anything, it's not like you're committing to something deep straightaway. I agree with vibrant, how else is someone going to get to know someone they don't really have an opportunity to see regularly?
Just a thought: don't be so keen to have guys coming up and asking you out, I bet the girls who get that a lot get pretty sick of it.
 
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I believe that its totally alright for females to ask males out. I wouldnt worry about it, believe it or not but it actually takes a lot of pressure off of the man, if he isnt the one that "always" has to make the move.

If a woman asked me out I would see it as a sign of confidence and boldness. I would like it, and it would score her points in my book. Not to say that I would say yes to her, but it would make me think 'more' highly of her, if she did ask me out.
 
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