Getting married in 8 weeks

[PegasusOnFire]

I was wondering what are some things a new bride needs to know. I am felling a bit nervous, I know that this is normal. Jay and I really want our marriage to last, we do not want to follow the trend of our generation. Right now we have been facing the whole job thing, which can be really stressful. But apparently, using his father's words about something that I told Jay recently, "She said the right thing. Listen to her." Jay really doesn't like his current job, reminds him to much of the NAVY. So he is quiting it today. He told me about his plans yesterday, before and after church. My responce was nothing like what he had expected. I simply told him, "Do whatever will make you happy." So he is going to be signing up for night classes come this spring, and getting a factory job. This is also the same thing that I told him when he enlisted. Was this the right thing to do?

 

[ceres]

Sounds good, but will "whatever makes him happy" make both of you happy? Or will it cause stress? I didn't understand the what the question is...
and that first thing you asked, did you have something in particular in mind?

 

[PegasusOnFire]

I am not sure what my real question is. I guess I want tips on how to stay this much in love with him, even on days that I didn't want to see him.

 

[Newone]

I highly recommend that you read the Song of Songs. This is God's guide to the way husband and wife should relate to one another.

 

[Iddie4him]

pegasus,
the only advice I can offer you in this situation is just always be there to listen to your future husband and always try to be objective and not form any hasty opinions if you don't agree at first.
And above all, being supportive of your mate is a big help.

 

[PegasusOnFire]

thank you I will keep these things in my mind and heart.