gender identity problems

[Lily76_]

Can i post here ? i have gender identity problems i though for along time that i was mixed gender
/ gender fluid but that is wrong because i am so uncomforable about my body i though i was the wrong sex am female by birth am married to a man who i love very much but am so unhappy with my body because am obese and i have an eating disorder
i though that changing my sex would make me happy ...am just happy that i didnt take any steps to change my body

I want Jesus in my life i want to be saved Jesus stopped me becoming something am not
I hope its ok for me to post here

Thank you

 

[Lily76_]

 

[Cute Tink]

I would recommend finding a good therapist in your area to help you with what you are going through. I would also consult with a doctor, since you say you have an eating disorder. Those cause serious medical problems if left untreated.

There are often free or reduced cost clinics in major cities (and some smaller ones) if money is an issue.

You should really get your eating disorder under control with the help of both of the above as soon as possible.

A doctor, nutritionist or some time with a personal trainer can help you with obesity, depending on exactly what the cause is.

I'm sorry you didn't get a response sooner. Some areas of the forums don't always get the attention they deserve.

 

[PapaZoom]

I would recommend finding a good therapist in your area to help you with what you are going through. I would also consult with a doctor, since you say you have an eating disorder. Those cause serious medical problems if left untreated.

There are often free or reduced cost clinics in major cities (and some smaller ones) if money is an issue.

You should really get your eating disorder under control with the help of both of the above as soon as possible.

A doctor, nutritionist or some time with a personal trainer can help you with obesity, depending on exactly what the cause is.

I'm sorry you didn't get a response sooner. Some areas of the forums don't always get the attention they deserve.

This is exactly the advice I'd give as well. I went through years of an unexpected and difficult bout with depression and my counselor helped me tremendously. I still have problems as the issue is genetic but the help I received gave me tools to deal with my anxiety and my depression rarely surfaces and is mild. It's a struggle and going it alone is impossible. Good advice.

 

[1watchman]

If you have confidence in a really caring physician, then talk openly with him about your obesity, depression, etc. As to your self-image you can trust the Lord Jesus for His care always. Make Him your best Friend and lord of your life, and He will renew you, guide, and keep you going on well. He truly cares for His own disciples. I have learned that over 60 years walking with Him. Look up always, for God cares always!

 

[Lily76_]

I am in the uk they will not give me anymore therapy on the nhs, i cant afford a therapist , because i have A HIGH BMI they will not treat my eating disorder apart from seeing a dr who weights me and tells me to lose weight i cant go with out the NHS as its too expansive

 

[Cute Tink]

I can't say I'm familiar with the UK health system. I'm not sure how helpful I would be in trying to help you find services. I will yield to people more familiar with the requirements and available services.

I hope you can get the help you need soon.

 

[1watchman]

Maybe do a little research on physicians who deal with obesity.

 

[sparkle123]

Hey. If you can't afford therapy can you get to a peer support group?

 

[Lily76_]

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