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Hi there,
I'm an evangelical Christian from the UK. This is a question for Canadian evangelicals who disagree with same-sex relationships.
I'm a very loving, understanding and friendly person. I love gay people, have many gay friends and support most of what the gay rights movement stands for. However as an evangelical Christian I believe that same-sex relationships and homosexual behaviour is morally wrong in the eyes of God. I have no problems with Civil Unions (this is what the Brits currently have), but I would have major issues with it officially being called 'marriage' as the government in Canada has done.
Firstly I believe calling it 'marriage' would mean state approval of homosexuality, rather than the current tolerant neutrality. It could bias the approach to teaching sex and relationships in schools; and send the message that people with traditional convictions on sexuality are 'wrong', 'weird' or even 'horrible people'. But I can cope with this.
Secondly, and most importantly; it could force people who disagree with gay marriage to act against their conscience and marginalise or lead to discrimination against people of faith.
The Bible says that is not only a sin to engage in homosexuality, but it is equally sinful to approve of it. (i.e attending a civil partnership ceremony) Therefore for me to call a same-sex couples union a 'marriage' is a sin and is (technically) calling "good evil and evil good".
Now I want to be a Social Worker working with the public. I have no problem working with the gay community. However should "full gay marriage" come into force it could mean compromising my faith in order to do my job. I might have to write reports referring to the 'marriage' of two women or ask a male service user to bring his 'husband' to the next meeting. I have no problem using terms like 'partner' or referring to a mans 'boyfriend' or a womans 'girlfriend'. These are facts. But 'marriage', 'wife' and 'husband' are God terms and as a God fearing Christian I don't think I could use them in the wrong context. So would this mean i cannot work in this profession?
Now I realise that Canada has had full gay marriage for several years now. Canada will also have God-fearing Christians working in professions like social work and education. How do you deal with this dilemma? What is the solution? What is the situation in Canada? (i.e are Christians being marginalised?)
I'm an evangelical Christian from the UK. This is a question for Canadian evangelicals who disagree with same-sex relationships.
I'm a very loving, understanding and friendly person. I love gay people, have many gay friends and support most of what the gay rights movement stands for. However as an evangelical Christian I believe that same-sex relationships and homosexual behaviour is morally wrong in the eyes of God. I have no problems with Civil Unions (this is what the Brits currently have), but I would have major issues with it officially being called 'marriage' as the government in Canada has done.
Firstly I believe calling it 'marriage' would mean state approval of homosexuality, rather than the current tolerant neutrality. It could bias the approach to teaching sex and relationships in schools; and send the message that people with traditional convictions on sexuality are 'wrong', 'weird' or even 'horrible people'. But I can cope with this.
Secondly, and most importantly; it could force people who disagree with gay marriage to act against their conscience and marginalise or lead to discrimination against people of faith.
The Bible says that is not only a sin to engage in homosexuality, but it is equally sinful to approve of it. (i.e attending a civil partnership ceremony) Therefore for me to call a same-sex couples union a 'marriage' is a sin and is (technically) calling "good evil and evil good".
Now I want to be a Social Worker working with the public. I have no problem working with the gay community. However should "full gay marriage" come into force it could mean compromising my faith in order to do my job. I might have to write reports referring to the 'marriage' of two women or ask a male service user to bring his 'husband' to the next meeting. I have no problem using terms like 'partner' or referring to a mans 'boyfriend' or a womans 'girlfriend'. These are facts. But 'marriage', 'wife' and 'husband' are God terms and as a God fearing Christian I don't think I could use them in the wrong context. So would this mean i cannot work in this profession?
Now I realise that Canada has had full gay marriage for several years now. Canada will also have God-fearing Christians working in professions like social work and education. How do you deal with this dilemma? What is the solution? What is the situation in Canada? (i.e are Christians being marginalised?)