gay child

[Guyfoo]

Ok, am i am new here soo ahhh i am not sure where to put this, but anyway i was just woundering what would you do if your our your future child came out to you, What if they said they could never change? Would you accept them or what? Ohhh if possible give a reason why you would do such and such......

So i guess you can start discussing........

 

[MemeBuster]

Try to cure them?

 

[bammertheblue]

Well, I don't plan on having children, but if I do...my brother and I are both bi so I think the chance of me having a gay or bi child would probably be greater than average.
I think it would be great as long as they are happy and kind and smart and healthy and everything else a parent hopes their child would be.

 

[katautumn]

I would not love my son any less. I would hurt for him, in the same way that any parent would when they have a child that has the potential to be a target of bigots and bullies, but I would never shun him or turn my back on him. I would only want for his happiness.

Besides, my son is only four and he already exhibits signs that are slightly on the effeminate side. Who knows? Maybe he is gay and we don't know yet.

 

[Soul Searcher]

Ok, am i am new here soo ahhh i am not sure where to put this, but anyway i was just woundering what would you do if your our your future child came out to you, What if they said they could never change? Would you accept them or what? Ohhh if possible give a reason why you would do such and such......

So i guess you can start discussing........

Yes I would accept the child for who s/he is and love him/her the same.

 

[chalice_thunder]

I would love and accept them as they are. I would also teach them to love and accept themselves, and to stand in respect and gratitude for the gift of being created gay.

 

[CCGirl]

I would love them no matter what...

 

[BigToe]

I'd love the child just the same as if they were heterosexual. If I heard stories of people being mean to them over their sexuality, it would break my heart that anyone would judge my child without getting to know them and treat them unfairly for it. Just as it would break my heart for any other reason my child would get picked on. Who they are attracted to does not change who they are as an individual.

 

[LouTheWicked]

I'd accept it.

 

[amused]

I would love my kids regardless. Our kids grow up and they are responsible for their own lives. I would just keep doing what I do now, encourage them to seek God, Believe in Jesus and just do your best in life. Grace is hugemungous!

cheers

 

[TooCurious]

It wouldn't bother me; there's no reason that it should. If my kid was harassed at school or in any other context for being gay, I'd try to help him (or her) to deal with it, just as if s/he was being harassed for any other reason.

 

[Texas Lynn]

I'd be very happy.

 

[JoyforJESUS]

I would embrace my child. Just as God our Heavenly Father Embraces us. We don't always do what Our Heavenly Father wants us to do, yet God still Loves us Unconditionally. God expects nothing less from US!

so the answer is "LOVE THE CHILD"

 

[Merlin]

Of course I would accept him.
For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.

 

[Mling]

Especially if they were on the young side, I would wonder if I had somehow given them the impression that it was "better" to be gay, or that I expected him/her to be so, because I am. I would want my child to be happy. If they are trying to fake something, or convince themselves of something they are not, then they won't be happy. If they do turn out to be actually gay, I'd be fine and dandy with it.

 

[trunks2k]

I'd go out and buy him his first set of pumps, or a flannel shirt if it was my daughter.

Just kidding.

Really, I'd probably just say "That's nice. Now go do your homework." I just wouldn't make that big deal about it, I would hope that my child would know that his or her sexuality does not matter to me.

 

[Steezie]

I would tell my child that I loved them just the same. It would make no difference to me one way or the other.

 

[wanderingone]

I told her she still wasn't allowed to date until she was 16.

 

[ZuZu]

I'd be more concerned how they treat other people, not whether they are gay or straight...

 

[ImaginaryVoyager]

I'd love them just the same as my hetero kids