No one needs to go anywhere, Im requesting a 6 month ban, enjoy yourselves, catch ya next year
I apologize if you thought I was only talking about you. In fact, I don't see why you need to leave (wanted to do this in PM but couldn't find your link) anyway, I was frustrated at the other poster for not just connecting his stupid dots for me, I feel like that is rude, disrespectful, selfish and the opposite of real love. Then, I talked to a friend that got me crying over our sons death again. When I read your post that seemed to accuse me falsely, it was the last straw. I came here looking for a bit of Christian fellowship, something I find in chat, debate, and discussion, but figured this was safe enough to avoid the things above. What I found was well, let's say, lack of true fellowship.
Sometimes, life clouds us from understanding what we are reading, as is the case this last week and our grief, our son should have been 20 last week, instead, we celebrate the 1 year of his death on this earth and his life in eternity. That can make it hard to read and understand what others are saying. So when I ask someone to connect the dots it isn't to be contrary, or to say that your opinion is over God's. I don't ask for clarification so that I can nit pic or pretend to have answers I don't. I ask for clarification because I think you might be able to teach me something, and I'm not clear as to what you want to relate.
When I say that we know, through the study of the totality of scripture, I am not suggesting you haven't studied, but rather I am suggesting that one passage alone will not conclude the matter.
So the question I have to come to is this....how is it that because I ask you to speak through the clouds of grief into my mind, that it equals all kinds of illusive and not kind remarks....how is it that when I suggest that we can't finish the discussion based on one passage alone it means that I am accusing someone of not studying or being immature? Seems to me that the Godly response, the loving response is to simple communicate rather than trying so hard to read into it what is not there so that you (generic you) can be something more than you really are.
Now...back to my leaving and your continuing on.