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JCChick

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I understand that u have been through alot this year but so have i, if you only knew the things that are going through my head right now. I am really sorry i have hurt you and e. I am not used to this much presure that i am taking right now. I do not have very good ways to vent so it will take time.

Luv ya, MO
 
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JCChick said:
I understand that u have been through alot this year but so have i, if you only knew the things that are going through my head right now. I am really sorry i have hurt you and e. I am not used to this much presure that i am taking right now. I do not have very good ways to vent so it will take time.

Luv ya, MO
yes uv hurt me a couple of times this year but hey ur not this bad i luv ya to death and this is not about you this time lol(but thanks for lookin) cya l8er
 
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dancergurl said:
i have a friend who claims to be very religous but treats people really rudely even my other friends she is a good friend but i hate how she acts and sometimes feel i cant trust her i know she values my friendship but i cant stand the way she treats people wut should i do?:confused:
LOVING SOMEONE MEANS TELLING THEM THE TRUTH ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS AND YOU NEED TO BE FORTHCOMING WEITH THIS PERSON ABOUT THE WAY YOUR FEELING. OTHERWISE THEY MAY FIND OUT HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT THEM THROUGH SOMEONE ELSE AND THY MAY LOSE THEIR TRUST IN YOU DUE TO THE FACT THAT YOU DIDN'T SPEAK WITH THM ABOUT THIS SITUATION.
 
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dancergurl said:
i have a friend who claims to be very religous but treats people really rudely even my other friends she is a good friend but i hate how she acts and sometimes feel i cant trust her i know she values my friendship but i cant stand the way she treats people wut should i do?:confused:
confront her, no matter if you lose a friend, i think you should confront her...
 
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I'm not sure that "confront" is the right word for this. More like a gentle persuasion of sorts. If you have a problem with her please let her know how you feel. You don't have to be blunt or confrontational though. Ask God for the words to help you say it right and He will give you the right words to use.

Your friend may not even realize what she is doing. Just let her know that you've noticed how she treats other people and that it doesn't sit well with you. The key thing is to get her talking about it and open her eyes. And if she is unwilling to change then pray for her.
 
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