I was in a relationship that I got in the flesh and screwed up the whole thing and broke up with her several times. God took it all away and now I'm repentantly striving toward him by His grace & mercy. Whether her trust for me can change and if its God's will is in question. And I desperately need His help to stand no matter what. Please pray for her and myself. Also, we both need a lot of healing. Thank you.
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I can imagine the pain you are going through.
You have confessed your sin to the prayer team here, and I know God is faithful to forgive and heal you and her.
Do you goto church?
If so get with some leaders and have them pray with you, seek God on a decision on what to do from here.
He is faithful to guide your paths, and whatever He says, do it don't hesitate.
I am a Christian of 7 years, and I knew deep in my heart that I wasn't ready for marriage. So I prayed over and over for God to preserve me until it was time.
I am not married yet, but I feel I am very close.
The wait isn't bad at all, as a matter of fact I feel glad that I have waited, I look at others who didn't and see there problems.
[Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.] Phili 4:6+7
Lord I pray for your peace through the Holy Ghost to come over Vapor and take control of his thoughts, bringing him out of the flesh and into Your Spirit, to guide Him on the paths that You have planned for him. In Jesus name!
You have confessed your sin to the prayer team here, and I know God is faithful to forgive and heal you and her.
Do you goto church?
If so get with some leaders and have them pray with you, seek God on a decision on what to do from here.
He is faithful to guide your paths, and whatever He says, do it don't hesitate.
I am a Christian of 7 years, and I knew deep in my heart that I wasn't ready for marriage. So I prayed over and over for God to preserve me until it was time.
I am not married yet, but I feel I am very close.
The wait isn't bad at all, as a matter of fact I feel glad that I have waited, I look at others who didn't and see there problems.
[Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all comprehension, shall guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.] Phili 4:6+7
Lord I pray for your peace through the Holy Ghost to come over Vapor and take control of his thoughts, bringing him out of the flesh and into Your Spirit, to guide Him on the paths that You have planned for him. In Jesus name!
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You know I waited for approximately 6 years after my rededication to the Lord for a wife and then I screwed up.
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Blessed-one
a long journey ahead
time will tell, and rest assure that God has things in store for you. I'm praying.
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I'm praying for you, Vapor. I know these things can be crushing. Trust in God. Read His Word, He will tell you what you need to do.
I am going through something similar right now. PM me if you want to talk.
I am going through something similar right now. PM me if you want to talk.
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Thanks for your prayers. Well last night turned into a blowup accusation fight. I will probably be seeing her tonight. We both need strength to do the right thing (with our words at this point) and think pleasant thoughts. Your continued prayers are appreciated to see this through. The enemy wants to destroy our usefullness to God; but when the enemy comes in like a flood, God will lift up a standard against him. Also, I need God's wisdom on how to deal with this recent past and how I need to deal with now and the future. Thank you all again!
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I think she is having a hard time trully forgiving me and getting over bitterness. I need Jesus' strength to be in the midst of her controlling and critical mindset that has set in since the "tables have turned" so to speak. And she keeps mentioning other guys. I need God's wisdom, hope, and strength. Thanks.
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