Actually, I affirm the teaching in Romans 10. . .righteousness is from Christ, where we do not have to climb or dive to access him by the gift of faith (Philippians 1:29; 2 Peter 1:1; Acts 13:48, 18:27; Romans 12:3) from the Holy Spirit, in his sovereign regeneration of us (John 3:7-8).
Looking at Philippians, it says:
[Phl 1:27-30 NASB95] 27 Only conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or remain absent, I will hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving together for the faith of the gospel; 28 in no way alarmed by [your] opponents which is a sign of destruction for them, but of salvation for you, and that [too,] from God. 29 For to you it has been granted for Christ's sake, not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for His sake, 30 experiencing the same conflict which you saw in me, and now hear [to be] in me.
So the IT in verse 29 is a pronoun. It correlates with the THAT pronoun the verse before which is gender neuter. The ALARMED BY YOUR OPPONENTS is masculine while DESTRUCTION FOR THEM & SALVATION FOR YOU is feminine. Therefore, the neuter THAT pronoun refers to the whole process in verse 28 and the IT in verse 29 continues the thought meaning "the whole process of being in no way alarmed by your opponents which is a sign of destruction for them but salvation for you" has been granted for Christ sake. Not only are you believing, but you are also suffering (these describing present experiences).
The
Peter 1:1 passage is implying a cumulative building upon faith ... it doesn't say "the faith for salvation" it says "a faith of the same kind as ours" (implying multiple types of faith). Based on the following context it seems Peter is talking about sanctification, not justification.
[2Pe 1:3, 5-8 NASB95] 3 seeing that His divine power has granted to us everything pertaining to life and godliness, through the true knowledge of Him who called us by His own glory and excellence. ... 5 Now for this very reason also, applying all diligence, in your faith supply moral excellence, and in [your] moral excellence, knowledge, 6 and in [your] knowledge, self-control, and in [your] self-control, perseverance, and in [your] perseverance, godliness, 7 and in [your] godliness, brotherly kindness, and in [your] brotherly kindness, love. 8 For if these [qualities] are yours and are increasing, they render you neither useless nor unfruitful in the true knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.
There is ABSOLUTELY a kind of faith given for the purposes of sanctification which the Bible speaks about separate from faith for justification (which is generated by depraved man). This type IS given by the Holy Spirit, but not given to everyone.
[1Co 12:7-11, 30-31 NASB95] 7 But to each one is given the manifestation of the Spirit for the common good. 8 For to one is given the word of wisdom through the Spirit, and to another the word of knowledge according to the same Spirit; 9 to another faith by the same Spirit, and to another gifts of healing by the one Spirit, 10 and to another the effecting of miracles, and to another prophecy, and to another the distinguishing of spirits, to another [various] kinds of tongues, and to another the interpretation of tongues. 11 But one and the same Spirit works all these things, distributing to each one individually just as He wills. ... 30 All do not have gifts of healings, do they? All do not speak with tongues, do they? All do not interpret, do they? 31 But earnestly desire the greater gifts. And I show you a still more excellent way.
When it comes to the gift of faith, that gift is NOT given to every believer (just as healing, prophecy, tongues is not given to every believer).
For Acts
13:48, it says "as many as had been appointed to eternal life believed." This word 'appointed' is not common... it is used 8 times in the Bible and 6/8 times it is used to describe people appointing, setting, determining, devoting, designating or establishing something. It doesn't say God appointed (devoted or established) them to eternal life, but rather seems to imply their belief was the cause of the appointing. This is confirmed when you look at the context for the verse:
[Act 13:46-48 NASB95] 46 Paul and Barnabas spoke out boldly and said, "It was necessary that the word of God be spoken to you first; since you repudiate it and judge yourselves unworthy of eternal life, behold, we are turning to the Gentiles. 47 "For so the Lord has commanded us, 'I HAVE PLACED YOU AS A LIGHT FOR THE GENTILES, THAT YOU MAY BRING SALVATION TO THE END OF THE EARTH.'" 48 When the Gentiles heard this, they [began] rejoicing and glorifying the word of the Lord; and as many as had been appointed to eternal life believed.
So Paul and Barnabas establish whom is doing the judging and appointing to eternal life... they themselves!
Acts 18:27 There is a translation note there which says it may be translated: "helped greatly through grace those who had believed." The reason for this is clear - when you look at the genders, "greatly helped" is neuter, while "had believed" is masculine and "through grace" is feminine. So we know with certainty that what it cannot mean is the faith comes through grace as that is a change from masculine to feminine.
As I suspected, Calvinism is trans.

(just kidding!)
I've already dealt with
Romans 12:3 (the gift of faith vs faith for justification). It specifically says that not every believer gets each of the gifts, so according to that logic some are saved who have not been given faith and Calvinism is proven as only one possible way to salvation. That would be wild - if both Calvin and Arminius were right... yikes. It is more likely that both are wrong.
In you final passage (
John 3:7-8) I never argue this point with you (though you've posted it multiple times) because I agree - being "circumcised in heart" or "regenerated" or "born again" are performed entirely by God and man has no ability to perform it for himself. Where we disagree is how one qualifies to have such action performed on their behalf. Calvinism posits that the choice is entirely God's to make for each individual, and I suggest that God chose a group (the descendants of Abraham) and whether to join that group is a choice He sets before man and commands him to choose (between life or death, blessing or cursing) which ultimately affects whether he belongs to that chosen group.
Even Calvinists accept this group election on some level, as they accept the nation of Israel as God's chosen people, and that not each individual in the nation is chosen, but they are chosen because they are part of the nation. They could be terrible bad people, but if they were born into the nation of Israel, they are still part of God's chosen people. God predestined that people as a nation irrespective of the individuals which comprise it.
Christ's prayer on the cross reads from Psalms:
[Psa 69:13, 16-18, 21, 23-28 NASB95] 13 But as for me, my prayer is to You, O LORD, at an acceptable time; O God, in the greatness of Your lovingkindness, Answer me with Your saving truth. ... 16 Answer me, O LORD, for Your lovingkindness is good; According to the greatness of Your compassion, turn to me, 17 And do not hide Your face from Your servant, For I am in distress; answer me quickly. 18 Oh draw near to my soul [and] redeem it; Ransom me because of my enemies! ... 21 They also gave me gall for my food And for my thirst they gave me vinegar to drink. ... 23 May their eyes grow dim so that they cannot see, And make their loins shake continually. 24 Pour out Your indignation on them, And may Your burning anger overtake them. 25 May their camp be desolate; May none dwell in their tents. 26 For they have persecuted him whom You Yourself have smitten, And they tell of the pain of those whom You have wounded. 27 Add iniquity to their iniquity, And may they not come into Your righteousness. 28 May they be blotted out of the book of life And may they not be recorded with the righteous.
Jesus prays against the nation of Israel here for them to be blinded, for their land to be desolate, and that they be blotted out of the book of life. You must be already written in the book to be blotted out! They were written because they were Abraham's descendants. And surely, the land of Israel was cursed for 2000 years and remained a desolate desert while the Jews were scattered.
[Rom 11:24-25 NASB95] 24 For if you were cut off from what is by nature a wild olive tree, and were grafted contrary to nature into a cultivated olive tree, how much more will these who are the natural [branches] be grafted into their own olive tree? 25 For I do not want you, brethren, to be uninformed of this mystery so that you will not be wise in your own estimation that a partial blindness has happened to Israel until the fullness of the Gentiles has come in;