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Originally Posted by cygnusx1

and so your definition of a Christian is ............ one who follows a "Christ" ?
sort of... it's one who self-identifies himself/herself as a follower of Jesus Christ.
Notice the Operative word there is "SELF" identifies. That's about all I see here.

Thus the necessity for a Christian site to DEFINE Christianity for itself:
ANYONE'S PRIVATE OPINION BASED ON ANYTHING? OR BIBLICAL FOUNDATION?

Without it, you have many gods, many lords and promote confusion to seekers.
 
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What about whether they follow his teachings and instructions?
Well, if someone honestly identifies as a follower of Christ, then they at least attempt to follow his teachings.
ANYONE'S PRIVATE OPINION BASED ON ANYTHING? OR BIBLICAL FOUNDATION?
Different Christians have different beliefs about the Bible.
 
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Right. So it's harder to actually have to defend your position than it is to be able to just shut out the heretics. You'd rather not have to make the effort. How noble.

I'd have no problem trusting him.

People here were promised the creed would stay and they were promised the majority would rule on the name change and it was 60-40 in favor of keeping Christ in the name.
He changed his mind. There was no contract; he said what he would do, then changed his mind. It's no big deal.
 
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Well, if someone honestly identifies as a follower of Christ, then they at least attempt to follow his teachings.

Different Christians have different beliefs about the Bible.
I'm not getting into a fight with you over this. The Bible's writers make their own claims as to the author; believe them or believe yourself that you somehow know more than them on who God said He was when they walked with Him personally & eyewitnessed His works.
I don't have faith enough in MYSELF to create my truths and reject their comprehensive testimonies about God and His requirements.

My post was to show why a definition needs to exist here to help curb the mass confusion that arises without one (more confusion than currently exists).
This kinda goes to the point IMHO!!!
 
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Well, if someone honestly identifies as a follower of Christ, then they at least attempt to follow his teachings.

And what is acknowledged as his teachings? Is it anything anyone claims he said? Is it limited to the canonical Bible? Does it include the full body of Christian gnosticism?
 
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I'd have no problem trusting him.


He changed his mind. There was no contract; he said what he would do, then changed his mind. It's no big deal.

Do you acknowledge that these events can influence others to distrust him, and while not PROVING it, they are evidence that he didn't just simply change his mind?

 
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can you not even see what you have just done !!!!!!!!
I see it God forbid we can't spot a false teacher ourselves and confront doctrinal falsities!

Just let everybody decide what Christianity is for themselves, and leave them alone. If they claim they are, then you better be quiet and show them love & support no matter WHAT they believe.

If this is the condition of the Christian base Erwin's counting on to witness to new seekers, my suggestion would have to be to close down any foru.m.

It's much better not to hear anything than to be misled into falsity (or have them leave due to confusion) imho.
 
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And what is acknowledged as his teachings?
It depends on what someone believes, because there's no way to prove beyond any doubt which of the recorded teachings of Christ are really true.
 
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It depends on what someone believes,


For the first part of your statement:

Then what happens when 2 people have diametrically opposed beliefs, both claiming to be Christian, both claiming that their teachings are correct, but there is no way to reconcile the 2 different beliefs?

As an example, Person A is a Roman Catholic, Person B believes that Jesus was incarnated, not as a human, but as the Flying Spaghetti Monster (TM).

Both are radiacally different, and obviously, can not both be true. How can both be Christian?


Just because we want to let people define things for themselves does not change reality or truth. Opinions and beliefs are subjective, reality and truth are objective.

I can claim to be a millionaire, but just because I claim the title, does not make it fact.

I can claim that 2+2=5. Does that make it so?

because there's no way to prove beyond any doubt which of the recorded teachings of Christ are really true.

For the second part:

Do you agree that some scriptures are more reliable that others in terms of being more likely to be "authentic"? (Age of document, supporting and corresponding evidence from outside the Christian community, etc.)
 
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I don't see how they can't... they are both Christian, just with very different beliefs.
Just because we want to let people define things for themselves does not change reality or truth. Opinions and beliefs are subjective, reality and truth are objective.
But this website can't define what the truth is.
Do you agree that some scriptures are more reliable that others in terms of being more likely to be "authentic"? (Age of document, supporting and corresponding evidence from outside the Christian community, etc.)

Well, I guess I agree...
 
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There comes a point when enough is enough. The man has made his decision. Disagree with that decision and I will quite likely agree with you. To question ones belief system is not the right thing to do. That kind of attack needs to stop not for the sites good but for the persons good who posts this kind of crap.

Erwin may have changed this place and made you all quite angry and believe me I do indeed understand. It is just WRONG for we Christians who love Jesus Christ to attack anyone period........

Argue the issues please do not attack the messenger. LEAVE ERWIN THE MAN OUT OF THE ARGUMENT! IT IS OBVIOUS HE IS FOR JESUS CHRIST OR THIS PLACE WOULD NEVER HAVE EXISTED IN THE FIRST PLACE ! That is just not right! Leave the MAN alone and save him from being tortured . WHO THE HECK ARE WE TO JUDGE HIM OR ANYONE ??? That just WENT 0VER the line.

That is NOT reaching out to someone in the name of Jesus ! THAT IS JUST VICIOUS AND UNCALLED FOR!

DISAGREE AND ARGUE THE ISSUE but DO NOT JUDGE ERWIN OR ANY MAN for what may or may not be in his heart. This is NOT CHRISTIAN IN ANY WAY SHAPE OR FORM.

Sorry if I have offended anyone but this needed to be said. Christians DO NOT TORTURE people !!!!!!!

I am praying...

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I don't see how they can't... they are both Christian, just with very different beliefs.

One believes Jesus was incarnated fully Man and fully Divine, the other believes He was incarnated as a Flying Spaghetti Monster. You honestly don't see how those ideas are incompatible?

But this website can't define what the truth is.
I totally agree with this. BUT this site can set parameters as far as what is considered Christian on it's pages. If the site doesn't define what Christian means, how can it define Christian Principles?

Well, I guess I agree...
I sense hesitance in that reply. It wasn't a trick question, honest.

As an example, would you agree that "Christian Variety A", which has only existed for around 200 years, and has no support for any of its beliefs from outside it's own membership and self described history is equaly reliable, more reliable, or less reliable, than "Christian Variety B" which has existed for roughly 2000 years, and has documents from outside it's religion and membership which supports at least some of it's claims?


To Sun and to all, if my posting about the dates of events and polls is seen as an attack, I sincerely apologize. I am not trying to attack or torture Erwin. I am trying to reconcile his statements and actions against each other so that I CAN continue trusting his intentions and vision for this site. I do not doubt his beliefs or faith.
 
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To show full disclosure, someone else, I think mayber pgp_protector?, brought up that Erwin may have intended to start another forum with it initially. I can't discount that, but Erwin also shot down the idea of running 2 seperate boards, on Christian Only, and one secular, when it was suggested, stating that he didn't have time. I personally don't see why he would buy a new domain if he didn't have time to implement 2 under other circumstances.
 
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One believes Jesus was incarnated fully Man and fully Divine, the other believes He was incarnated as a Flying Spaghetti Monster. You honestly don't see how those ideas are incompatible?
Of course these ideas aren't compatible, but I've never said that all forms of Christianity are totally compatible with each other.
I totally agree with this. BUT this site can set parameters as far as what is considered Christian on it's pages. If the site doesn't define what Christian means, how can it define Christian Principles?
It can define Christian principles without defining a Christian person. Defining other people for them isn't a good thing.
You should be a Catholic... Well, the variety B would be more probable, I think. But it doesn't mean that it's perfect and anything that disagrees with it is wrong. If I believed that I'd be a Catholic or Orthodox.
 
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Christianity is defined by believing in God. It's not defined by believing the bible. It's not defined by agreeing with conservative christians, contrary to your (and many other) beliefs. It's not defined by agreeing with my interpretations of the bible. It's defined by belief in God.

God determines who is a christian. Neither the bible, you, me, or anyone in the universe other than God are the ones who determine who is a christian. Someone can be christian without ever reading the bible.

I don't understand why you're worried about confusion. Shouldn't we have faith in God that He'll show seekers the way to Him?
 
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I saw that thread and I agree

What really me is his wording. His exact words were "I started to look for a new name since this poll, and I changed the name so that, as the poll states, it more closely reflects the new vision."

Since denotes after, and he had clearly already chosen and bought the new name before the poll ever began.
 
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Fair enough. Thanks for the exchange. I don't have the mental capacity to continue much more this morning, and I have to finish prepping for a meeting. I don't think we're going to agree on much more than we already have, but that's not so bad, I suppose.

No, I don't think Catholic is for me, I had a hard enough time being a Lutheran, lol. I'm happy being a non-denominational Christian. Less man made doctrine, IMHO. But that's just me.

Personally, I believe than any "flavor" of Christianity that is biblically rooted, whether I agree with all fo their teachings and fine points of theology, are fine, and are rooted in Christ, therefore, valid. Other non-Biblical forms that claim the title (Mormonism, JW, etc.) I am much less likely to believe are saved. That's not to doubt their heart for God, but that's all for other threads.
 
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Well, that's what we believe different... I don't believe that someone's theology determines if someone's "saved" or not.
 
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