Hi guys I am new, joined to ask a question...
I am divorced ... Been married for 15 years, on the 16th year she said she wants a divorce, I gave her the divorce because she is a narcissist. After the divorce she did not want to move out, so continues to stay with me and our 3 teens. So I asked if you wanted to stay then why divorce and shame me, because there is no problem between you and me...
She said .. because I don't want to be your wife I want to be your friend... And now that we are not married you cant tell me what to do anymore...?!
So that's my story... I just left it be like this cos I want the kids to finish university, I do my work and she does hers... and we both see to the kids ...she sleeps in the master room and I in the back room.
The issue is I don't want to get married ever again...I made a mistake marrying a narcissist and I don't ever want to give any woman that kind of power ever again....
What I want is I want to just have one relationship with one christian woman who is ok not to marry and not to have kids, where she has her own life but she and me can have itimacy when needed and all the going out stuff and companionship.
I don't want inappropriate content nor masturbation as a fix to my trouble.
I want to know is this ok....I know many ppl define this as sexual immorality but what is immmoral ...food is an appetite and sex too ... Would you like to beg every time you need to eat...
That's how I felt for many years beg to have sex ...and even now as I am alone ...I need to have sex but stopped because as a Christian we have to be married .. I am stuck.
I am divorced ... Been married for 15 years, on the 16th year she said she wants a divorce, I gave her the divorce because she is a narcissist. After the divorce she did not want to move out, so continues to stay with me and our 3 teens. So I asked if you wanted to stay then why divorce and shame me, because there is no problem between you and me...
She said .. because I don't want to be your wife I want to be your friend... And now that we are not married you cant tell me what to do anymore...?!
So that's my story... I just left it be like this cos I want the kids to finish university, I do my work and she does hers... and we both see to the kids ...she sleeps in the master room and I in the back room.
The issue is I don't want to get married ever again...I made a mistake marrying a narcissist and I don't ever want to give any woman that kind of power ever again....
What I want is I want to just have one relationship with one christian woman who is ok not to marry and not to have kids, where she has her own life but she and me can have itimacy when needed and all the going out stuff and companionship.
I don't want inappropriate content nor masturbation as a fix to my trouble.
I want to know is this ok....I know many ppl define this as sexual immorality but what is immmoral ...food is an appetite and sex too ... Would you like to beg every time you need to eat...
That's how I felt for many years beg to have sex ...and even now as I am alone ...I need to have sex but stopped because as a Christian we have to be married .. I am stuck.