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Just to clear things up, yes he is my boyfriend and not my husband.
Hi AthenaCat, OK, thanks, that completely changes what I'm going to say. First off though, I am sorry about the "stalker". I've never seen anything quite like that since I've been posting here and you're right, that was pretty creepy!
Now, as to your relationship with your BF, my advice is to end it immediately. Not because of anything he did or didn't do, but because you are a Christian.
As I'm sure you've found, it can sometimes be difficult to discern what God's will is in certain situations, especially if they're not directly addressed in Scripture. In fact, haven't you wished you could just turn to a page in the Bible and it would clearly tell you, "THIS IS THE WILL OF GOD", so you could just get on with it? I know I have ..
Well, as far as relationships are concerned, this is your lucky day ..
"This is the will of God, your sanctification; that is, that you abstain from sexual immorality" 1 Thess 4:3
Anyone who is sexually active outside of marriage is going against the express will of God and is living in sin by doing so. This is why you need to end this relationship immediately and ask God to forgive you!
Yours and His,
David
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