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my heart goes out to the many threads that i have read so far in this topic. i have experienced every aspect of sexual abuse there is. it was a devastating journey that started roughly around the age of five. locked in a vicious cycle between victim and abuser. my life at this point is an open book. if anything in my life can help anyone, then i am here to do so as a humble servant of God.
 

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effigy said:
my heart goes out to the many threads that i have read so far in this topic. i have experienced every aspect of sexual abuse there is. it was a devastating journey that started roughly around the age of five. locked in a vicious cycle between victim and abuser. my life at this point is an open book. if anything in my life can help anyone, then i am here to do so as a humble servant of God.

bless you effigy and may our Lord keep you, hold you, that you will foster an awareness here and bring more here so that many will have reduced suffering. Your healing has begun...here...and for others that might benefit from your encouragement!!

WELCOME! and contribute, because you have come so far...
 
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effigy said:
my heart goes out to the many threads that i have read so far in this topic. i have experienced every aspect of sexual abuse there is. it was a devastating journey that started roughly around the age of five. locked in a vicious cycle between victim and abuser. my life at this point is an open book. if anything in my life can help anyone, then i am here to do so as a humble servant of God.

Hey Effigy,

thanks for your openess in regards to talking about what happened to you ... not many male survivors are willing to do that, you are a blessing to all of us on this forum. May God continue to strengthen you and bless you

- Shaz
 
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