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Your collective attitudes towards homosexuality for oneRanging from antagonizing statements such as "gays have the right to marry, just someone of the opposite sex" to terms such as "sodomites" and going on into realms of discussion including the jailing or other restrictions on the liberty of homosexuals.
The fact that I haven't put you on ignore yet means you still hold credibility and interest to me and haven't gone beyond what I see as debate and into nastiness
Learning from you mistakes in this case would be educating yourself to the facts of homosexuality.
You seem to wish to remain wrong, which is certainly not learning from your mistakes.
Fair enough. But refusing to debate with me doesn't make you any less wrong.
We're also considering frequency.
It has been shown that virtually all men with SSA engage in sodomy on a regular or near regular basis. Most married couples do not do so at near the same frequency, if at all. Going back to the biker analogy: i have ridden a bike, but I am not a biker in the same sense that Lance Armstrong is.
That's stating a fact. People with same sex attractions do have the right to marry someone of the opposite sex, and I don't have the right to marry someone of the same sex either. It doesn't matter who you're attracted to, because marriage isn't about attractions. If I fell in love with my sister, I could not marry her. I cannot marry a minor either. I cannot marry someone who is already married, etc. If you think that stating a fact is antagonizing then I recommend a little self examination.
As far as "sodomites". It refers to someone who engages in sodomy. It is an accurate description of someone who does that behavior. If I ride bicycles, then calling me a biker is not hateful. All we are doing is accurately describing reality. If this term does no fit with PC Newspeak, then oh well.
Anyway, when it comes to tolerance, I think that very often the people who espouse that virtue are the worst violators. As in "Do what I say, not as I do", or "You have to tolerate us but we don't have to tolerate you"
You'll also be surprised to find there are a large number of gay couples who have sex but do not engage in sodomy.Why does frequency matter? So you can split hairs?
Besides, you'll find quite a lot of straight married couples who engage in sodomy at least once a week. Ask your married buddies how often they give or receive oral sex and you might be shocked how many Sodomites surround you.
Lesbians can be conveniently ignored whenever a poster is ranting about gays. They're generally an afterthought. They don't fit any of the "sodomy" or "AIDS" or "short-term relationships" or "bad parent" myths, either; lesbian relationships are generally safer, saner, longer, less disease-prone, and more secure that heterosexuals.WalkswithChrist does.
An empty charge. No one here isn't tolerating you.
It's a derogatory word used to highlight a single action that bugs you. And it leaves out lesbos. Don't discriminate in your hatred, that's just wrong.
It's no different than callin a black person a monkey.
Lesbians can be conveniently ignored whenever a poster is ranting about gays. They're generally an afterthought. They don't fit any of the "sodomy" or "AIDS" or "short-term relationships" or "bad parent" myths, either; lesbian relationships are generally safer, saner, longer, less disease-prone, and more secure that heterosexuals.
The secret? All this talk of sodomy, infidelity, and sexual disease...these are actually traits of men!!! They have nothing do to with orientation whatsoever.
Shhhh.
Trickster
Well, since I'm not even talking about homosexuality, your statement is wrong. And where in my statement you even think I was heading towards homosexuality, I have no idea. I'm not adding to anyone else's statements. I'm expressing MY views on what the topic starter put, which is forcing your beliefs on others, not homosexuality or anything else.
No I wasn't. I didn't even bring it up. You are splitting hairs.Why does frequency matter? So you can split hairs?
You mean like homophobe, bigot, and hatemonger?Bull and you know it. When used, especially by christians, it is a perjorative term denigrating a particular group of people.
So you admit it. My side should be tolerant of your beliefs but you don't need to be tolerant of ours . . . Pure hypocrisy.As soon as you see gay folk seriously saying christians should not be allowed to marry then you get to make this statement and be taken seriously.
That's just dishonest. Nobody is saying you shouldn't have the right to say whatever you like; we are merely disagreeing with what you say. YOU are the ones denying others rights; we are not attempting to deny you of anything.Let's see: we think same sex courtship is wrong, and you think us saying that is wrong. So we think that people do not have the right to marry any dang person they choose, and you think we do not have the right to stand up for that belief. So stop trying to deny us the right to stand up for what is right.
As I said, Tolerance Touters are walking storehouses of hypocrisy.
That's just dishonest. Nobody is saying you shouldn't have the right to say whatever you like; we are merely disagreeing with what you say. YOU are the ones denying others rights; we are not attempting to deny you of anything.
And THAT's just an attempt to change the subject. You made a false claim in trying to equate people disagreeing with your opinion with people denying something of others. At least be honest enough to admit it.Not so. We are not denying anyone any rights. Rather, we are standing up for what is right and holding up principles through self-government, and you are condemning us as bigots for it.
we think that people do not have the right to marry any dang person they choose, and you think we do not have the right to stand up for that belief. So stop trying to deny us the right to stand up for what is right.
No I wasn't. I didn't even bring it up. You are splitting hairs.
Originally Posted by KarateCowboy
We're also considering frequency.
It has been shown that virtually all men with SSA engage in sodomy on a regular or near regular basis. Most married couples do not do so at near the same frequency, if at all. Going back to the biker analogy: i have ridden a bike, but I am not a biker in the same sense that Lance Armstrong is.
No. There is a verse that says if a priest marries it may be to only one wife. As far as marriage laws, the Bible condemns homosexual partnership through and through.Isn't there a distinction between a law that says all priests must marry any that desire it and no law that prevents mutually consenting adults from marrying? In the first case, which no one is arguing for, there *might* be a case that it's forcing beliefs. But in the second case, the 'burden' of who is putting up with who's beliefs is distributed evenly.
Right. "Against pedophilia? Don't do it!"Against gay marriage? Don't have one!!
And if same sex "marriage" were legal, it would be your beliefs dictating the law of the land, so don't try and spini it off as if we're doing something wrong here.We are not denying you the right to treat gay marriage as wrong as per your beliefs, but you are denying us the right to treat gay marriage as right per our beliefs by trying to make your beliefs dictate the law of the land.
Well, Nitz brought up the use of the term, and I just pointed out why we are using it. Then you came in and started splitting hairs about "Well normal couples do it sometimes too blah blah". So that's why I brought up the difference in frequency --because you kept going on about it.Umm, you brought up frequency. See, here:
Pure bull. People with same sex attractions do have a right to marry, just as people who are attracted to little boys, or people who are attracted to their siblings, or normal people. So don't start saying they don't have the right to marry that is an outright lie. They just have attractions that stand outside of what everyone is allowed to do. So the question is not a matter of equal rights. They have the same rights as I. Here is an elementary concept that some just don't get: SAME mean EQUAL. Say it again: SAME is EQUAL. Once people can understand that we have a start. So the real question is: should EVERYONE be able to marry ANYONE they are attracted to. The answer, I believe, is no. That is because having studied anthropology I have looked at marriage through the ages and have seen that marrying for love is not the greatest common denominator. Just look at Japan. Japan is the most Westernized of the Oriental countries, and even today about 1/3 of marriages are arranged marriages. So, we do not need an institution recognized by the government to affirm our tingly feelings. However we do need a way of managing the natural union of a man and woman in the formation of a biological, natural family where the result is biological offspring. That is what we call 'marriage'.That is just dishonest, because nobody is trying to deny you any right. Nobody has said you don't have the right to stand up for that (or any other) belief. You, on the other hand, are all for denying homosexuals the right to marry. One group is being tolerant here; it ain't you.
A harmful act which does not involve consent given from both parties."Against pedophilia? Don't do it!"
Adopting babies? I am unfamiliar with this topic so I cannot comment.or how about
"Against corporations adopting? Don't do it!"
A harmful act which does not involve consent given from both parties."Against rape? Don't commit one!"
And if same sex "marriage" were legal, it would be your beliefs dictating the law of the land, so don't try and spini it off as if we're doing something wrong here.
Virtually every society has condemned homosexuality. So to try and spin it off as if we are some kind of abnormal religious weirdos is just plain dishonest. However, that does not stop you guys.
Pure bull. People with same sex attractions do have a right to marry, just as people who are attracted to little boys, or people who are attracted to their siblings, or normal people. So don't start saying they don't have the right to marry that is an outright lie. They just have attractions that stand outside of what everyone is allowed to do. So the question is not a matter of equal rights. They have the same rights as I. Here is an elementary concept that some just don't get: SAME mean EQUAL. Say it again: SAME is EQUAL. Once people can understand that we have a start. So the real question is: should EVERYONE be able to marry ANYONE they are attracted to. The answer, I believe, is no. That is because having studied anthropology I have looked at marriage through the ages and have seen that marrying for love is not the greatest common denominator. Just look at Japan. Japan is the most Westernized of the Oriental countries, and even today about 1/3 of marriages are arranged marriages. So, we do not need an institution recognized by the government to affirm our tingly feelings. However we do need a way of managing the natural union of a man and woman in the formation of a biological, natural family where the result is biological offspring. That is what we call 'marriage'.
As for being tolerant: you're not fooling me. And if you were tolerant of my beliefs you would not be on a Christian site telling us how our beliefs are all wrong, because you'd just live and let live and leave us be. Instead you are actively fighting our beliefs, trying to change them or invalidate them. That is anything but tolerant.
As for being tolerant: you're not fooling me. And if you were tolerant of my beliefs you would not be on a Christian site telling us how our beliefs are all wrong, because you'd just live and let live and leave us be.
Instead you are actively fighting our beliefs, trying to change them or invalidate them. That is anything but tolerant.
Not true. Speaking one's mind isn't intolerance, and you are not intolerant for speaking your mind.As for being tolerant: you're not fooling me. And if you were tolerant of my beliefs you would not be on a Christian site telling us how our beliefs are all wrong, because you'd just live and let live and leave us be. Instead you are actively fighting our beliefs, trying to change them or invalidate them. That is anything but tolerant.
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