I'm not sure she was using it as a thing for war
it sounded more like she was just pointing out that innocent people sacrifice themselves in order to help others, Jesus being the prime example of "laying down one's life for his friend."
Miss Laura, please don't think I'm directing this at you - this would be my view on war, not an assault on your view =)
Anyways... doesn't God use war? Didn't God use the Israelites in war to punish other nations, and didn't God use other nations to punish Israel... all through war? Certainly God is not against it.
God says that the government, which HE has ordained and given authority to, "does not wield the sword in vain" and is there "for the punishment of evildoers." (I think that's in 1st Timothy... big section about the government). Why do you weild a sword? You dont' use a deadly weapon like that just to gently tap someone on the wrist and say "bad boy," hehe (mom never did that to
me either, it wasn't a tap and not on the wrist

).
And then we even have Ecclesiastes. A time for war, a time for peace....
As for murder - I think some wars could be considered murder, heh. Protection is not murder, however. And if war was coming to our soil - yes, my view would change... I wouldn't have a shadow of a doubt about my view. Peace is always better, but war is sometimes necessary, and if someone was going to attack our country - ok then, my country better fight back
That said, there are many innocent lives everywhere. There were many innocent lives in the Twin Towers. Many innocent lives lots of places. There are many Christians that get persecuted in North Korea by the communist government (which is there because of our lack of victory fighting them, heh).