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Flawed Logic of Gay Christians

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Feces are involved. That is exactly the point. The argument about the genitals not fitting actually goes straight to the point.
 
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Have you actually researched it?

Not personally. But I have heard enough from scholars who HAVE researched the Old Testament. Geological evidence certainly does not support Noah's flood as being world-wide ...local, perhaps. Much of the OT appears to be a mix of fact and fable and it's difficult if not impossible to determine the difference.

It is actually more illogical to be an atheist. :o

You mean that it's more illogical to say that there is no Creator (God)? I agree. That's why I consider myself a Christian but I don't necessarily believe that EVERYTHING in the Bible is to be taken literally. While I feel deep down inside that God would CERTAINLY have left us some tangible evidence that He's there and wants the best for us I personally find the Bible (specifically the OT) to be very questionable at best. I can't accept the Bible as being inerrant simply because I'm supposed to. And yet, I feel that God is in there SOMEWHERE.

Maybe we've made Christianity so complicated that we can't see the simple message of the Bible any more ...like the being unable to see the forest for the trees analogy. When you think about it, loving others and therefore not condemning them for being different to 'us' might just be that simple command that Jesus asked of us. We might not be able to relate to the poor but we are to care for them anyway. We might not be able to relate to the sick but we are to care for them anyway. We might not be able to relate to a 'criminal' (I hate labels, we're all human) but we are to care enough about them to visit them in prison anyway. We might not be able to relate to 'gay' people but we are to acknowledge that they ARE 'gay and we are to therefore accept them 'as is'. To 'these the least of my brethren' certainly implies that we are to show love ...ESPECIALLY to those who we normally don't relate to and might normally shy away from. Perhaps that's all that is required of us.

Perhaps a literal belief in Adam and Eve, talking snakes, Noah's flood, pillars of salt, etc. etc. is really not necessary in order to be an effective Christian.
 
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Are you suggesting that homosexuality is comparable to poverty, poor health, and criminality? I certainly disagree with the fire-and-brimstone approach of some Christians here in regards to homosexuality, but I also disagree that homosexuality is something which ought to escape discussion, debate, and even a little criticism from time to time. I understand the impatience of homosexuals in this forum, but labeling anyone who disagrees as a "bigot" does not invite moderate and reasoned debate.
 
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As far as accepting the Bible as fact or not, this is something you should reconsider. Ask yourself this, if you don't believe all of the Bible, then how can you believe ANY of it is credible? That is illogical. If you can't believe the OT, how cant you believe the NT, expecially considering that the OT is the preface for the events in the NT that surround Jesus.

2 Timothy 3:16-17

16 All Scripture is inspired by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, for training in righteousness;

17so that the man of God may be adequate, equipped for every good work.

-Where
 
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Because human homosexual sexual contact is not an "evolved" anatomical condition. The proven natural contact IS heterosexual.
If this were true, we would not see other animal species engaging in homosexual behaviour. As it happens, there are over 1500 observed instances, from mammals to birds to reptiles to fish, even to invertebrates.

Further, that you say "the proven natural contact...." undermines your point: few biological theories pertaining to sexuality have been proven beyond reasonable doubt, and none concern sexual orientation.

Have you actually researched it?

It is actually more illogical to be an atheist. :o
An atheist rejects the presupposition that deities exist. Since there is a suspicious lack of evidence supporting said presupposition, how is it more illogical to be an atheist?
 
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They believe it, they just don't believe it is all literal, nor that it all applies today. They believe Genesis 1 is true, they just don't necessarily believe it is literally true.
 
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Again, the premise concerns humans NOT animals. Show me where "evolution" has morphed humans physically to be homosexuals.
Homosexuals do not have any physical characteristic unique to their orientation. Nonetheless, there are a number of biological differences between straight men and gay men. This article may help.

No, since "evolution" has no part in homosexual behavior among humans then it is a learned behavior.
Homosexuality is likely a mixture of both biological and environmental factors; it is no more noteworthy than one's hair colour or accent.

That said, homosexuality is an evolved trait of our species. Same-sex couples fulfil a number of secondary roles in a society of hunter-gatherer apes (adopting orphaned children, cementing same-sex groups (nurseries, hunting packs, etc), etc). But I think we're straying off topic.

So are you saying that the minority is correct?
Where on Earth did I say anything like that?

Have you actually examined the reasons why the majority is theistic?
Yes, pondering theological distributions is a pastime of mine. It is quite telling that a child will almost certainly adopt the religious status of one's parents (and, to a lesser extent, culture). For example, the vast majority of adult Christians were born to Christian parents and raised in a Christianised culture. The same can be said for Buddhism, Hinduism, Islam, Shintoism, Sikhism, etc. Conversion rates amongst adults is quite low.

To that end, I believe that a person is of a certain religion because they were simply brought up to believe that religion is true. I daresay Iranian Muslims genuinely and fervently believe in Allah and the Qu'ran, but why should we be surprised? They were spoon-fed Islam from day one, and were surrounded by it and its followers.

Ah, I see. The problem is that this is just a caricature of the atheist, and an unfair one at that. First, some definitions:

  • A theist is someone who believes in the existence of deities. They make the statement "I do believe deities exist".
  • An atheist is something who is not a theist. Thus, they make the statement "I don't believe deities exist".
    • The weak atheist leaves it at that. The only thing they say about deities is that they do not believe they exist.
    • The strong atheist goes one step further, and says: "I do believe deities don't exist".
"I believe X is false" and "I don't believe X is true" are two different statements: the former is the affirming of a negative, the latter is a rejection of a positive. Moreover, the burden of proof* lies on anyone and everyone who makes a claim.

Virtually all atheists are weak atheists: the don't believe deities do exist, nor do they believe deities don't exist. They don't make any claims to their existence either which way.

So, with this in mind, you should be able to understand why (weak) atheism is logical: in the absence of supporting evidence or rationale, one cannot logically make any claims to the existence of something. Since there is no such evidence or rationale, weak atheism is the logical stance.


But why, then, are so many people theists? There are a number of explanations for this, not least of which is the idea that religions are inherently infectious: they appeal to the most primal of human fears, wants, hopes, desires, and psychological predispositions. The human mind has evolved to be primed to absorb and lock in the wisdom of parents and the societies elders. Unfortunately, this has the side-effect of making spirituality, the supernatural, and theology, very easy to persist in a culture. And, given our once tiny sphere of knowledge, it made sense to posit mythical beings and awesome deities.

In other words, people like being theists. It gives them comfort and a sense of awe and, occasionally, self-importance. People like it, and it's very easy to spread to other people: "Look how happy I am! Let me regale you with tales of miraculous recoveries and the like! I must be right!".

But as fascinating as this discussion is, I've dragged us way off topic .


*Or something mutually agreed upon, since genuine proof is restricted to mathematics. This is typically "proof beyond all reasonable doubt"
 
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Are you suggesting that homosexuality is comparable to poverty, poor health, and criminality?

You obviously misunderstood my point or I didn't explain myself too well. What I THOUGHT that I made clear was the notion that Christians need to extend love to those - ESPECIALLY those - to whom they find it difficult to relate. In THIS particular case we're discussing homosexuality. I believe that homosexuality, generally speaking, is innate. Therefore, if one is 'gay' then they are 'gay' through no choosing of their own. Christians need to ACCEPT this fact and show love to homosexuals EVEN IF THEY CANNOT RELATE TO HOMOSEXUALITY PER SE. When a Christian shows (unconditional) love to a homosexual he/she is showing love to Jesus as per the scriptures.


I have never seen an issue so much under discussion by Christians than the topic of homosexuality. The topic itself has almost become some kind of an anti-religion and has taken on a life of its own. I personally find this very disturbing given that the REAL sins of the world - human greed, human stupidity, for instance - appear to pale in significance as compared to homosexuality. Many Christians have become so obsessed with homosexuality that it's become a festering sore. Very disturbing indeed!

I understand the impatience of homosexuals in this forum, but labeling anyone who disagrees as a "bigot" does not invite moderate and reasoned debate.

I agree that not everyone that disagrees with the issue of homosexuality is a bigot. But I do believe that they ARE misinformed as well as ignorant of the facts ...both the biological and the scriptural facts. I agree with you that we should invite moderate and reasoned debate on the issue but this cannot occur when total ignorance of the issue underpins the views of many ...especially the views of the 'anti-gays'.
 
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QFT!!
 
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I agree. Love should be the motivation for Christians addressing this issue. However, what do homosexuals expect from love? Do they expect that Christians will embrace their lifestyle? I do not agree that homosexuals should be shunned from the community. The Church is for sinners; whether it is homosexuality or any other kind of sin. Christ makes clear that he did not die for the so-called righteous. If we know a loved one has an addiction, is there not an intervention? If a Christian is poor, are not donations made for his well-being? Why is there an exception to addressing homosexuality if it is commonly accepted as a sin?


It may be a fact that one is predisposed to homosexuality as a consequence of biology. Nonetheless, it is accepted that people are capable of suppressing those things they ascribe to their nature; that is, if one person has a particular nature, he has the power of a will able to make decisions in contradiction to that supposed nature. On that basis, I disagree that anything is inherent to someone if they can act in contradiction to it. God does not act imperfectly, for example, because it is his nature to be perfect. Therefore we find that there is a difference between one's predispositions and one's actions, and when something is particular to a person's nature, there is no difference. So while it may be a fact that someone is predisposed to homosexuality (which research certainly suggests, but not concludes), it nonetheless remains a verifiable choice to act upon that predisposition. It is that choice which is the sin.


That certainly depends on the particular churches in question. While Ted Haggard and his crew may be especially concerned with homosexuality, the Catholic Church, in contrast, remains the largest international humanitarian organization in the world. That is not to boast on behalf of the Church, but simply to illustrate that priorities differ from church to church.


So people who disagree are ignorant?
 
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So people who disagree are ignorant?

Oh please ...once again you misunderstand me. By 'ignorant' I mean in regard to one's lack of knowledge or understanding on an issue. Christians (too many) seem to believe that a homosexual DECIDES out-of-the-blue to become a homosexual at a particular point in time. They seem to believe that a homosexual is really a deviant heterosexual. (?)

While I obviously don't know every person in the world who claims to be a homosexual I speak for the 'genuine article' ...right? The 'genuine article' are those who have felt an attraction for the same gender since as far back as they remember. And there are thousands and thousands of them in every country in the world. (it seems that Satan even gets to those who have never even heard of him ...nor ever will!)

Later this attraction becomes a 'sexual' attraction toward the same gender. In other words, this sexual orientation was not chosen. It's simply a part of the make-up of that person. It's who they are. And really, it should NOT even be a big deal!

But ...Christians (too many) don't acknowledge that fact ...and it IS a fact. So, they are therefore IGNORANT of the facts. The most irritating thing is that these 'ignorant' Christians (too many) try to come across as 'experts' on the issue. They believe they have it all figured out - NO ONE does! - and they attack 'the genuine article' with some rather obscure and ambiguous texts from the Bible as if to 'shame' a homosexual into becoming 'straight'. Ludicrous!

SO, as I stated ...ignorance underpins the views of many 'anti-gay' Christians. Therefore no effective debate on the issue can ever be forthcoming. And, that's tragic since many people are hurt and continue to be hurt because of the ignorance of (too many) Christians.

KCKID has spoken.
 
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What of the testimony of former homosexuals?

I also think it is a mistake to think that because one has a differing opinion, that they are consequently misinformed. It is the same tactic used by Bible-Alone Christians that condemn you for "failing" to see that homosexuality is "clearly" and "absolutely" condemned in Scripture.

You define homosexuality by "orientation". Sexual orientation is a social construct insofar it is a way to categorize particular thoughts; it is to say "I have these particular thoughts". But it is difficult to suggest that these things can be categorized because there are people who have different sets of thoughts. We can define homosexuality, bisexuality, and heterosexuality easily because there are two sexes and therefore few combination of thoughts, but this does not suggest that the categorization of those thoughts is innate. We are therefore compelled to ask the very nature of sexual attraction -- why do people find different certain types of people attractive, but not others? Because there are no universal correlates even within the specific categorizations, can we suggest that they are natural to a particular kind of person? To be a particular thing by nature suggests a universal definition of that thing; can something be innate if it differs from person to person? For example, while men may be predisposed to aggression as opposed to women, there is significant variation of aggression in men. Some men are rather timid. Therefore, we cannot suggest that it is inherent in the essence of a man to be aggressive. The claim that "men are aggressive" becomes irrelevant because not all men are aggressive. Consequently, I do not think it is valid to define homosexuality as "innate" to particular kinds of people because there is no way to measure it other than by act. And there significant variations in act among those who claim to be innately homosexual. Even sexual orientation loses its terminological significance because it's meaning is not absolute, and ultimately meaningless. This is where the difference between one's inner (thoughts, attractions, impulses, etc) and outer (actions) is revealed. So while a person may be predisposed to homosexual thoughts or attractions, it does not necessarily constitute them as homosexual by nature, as the exercise of the will may not conform their acts with their thoughts.
 
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This is an excellent OP from DMagoh,
The flawed logic is taking a statement and showing it doesn’t always apply.as has been demonstrated. The objections don’t seem to address the issue of flawed logic however, and furthermore the flawed logic applies to the Bible, clearly there is not necessarily any flawed logic is the Bible isnt the basis as many of the pro-same sex arguments have pointed out.
Monognaous homosexual relationships isnt in the Bible, the Bible make it clear these are error yet this is being used as a basis to argument aganst the logic.
 
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Dear Wiccan_Child,
David was married to Michal, how could his loving relationship with Jonathan which we are told was in spirit be sexual or monogamous?
It wasn't monogamous, since he was married to both Michal and Jonathan (Saul, to David: "Thou shalt this day be my son-in-law, in the twain"). Notice also that Samuel considered David's homosexual marriage to be equal his heterosexual marriage.

I would assume you understand what homosexual and monogamous means and you didnt know the story well enough, except that all this has been debated frequently and at length before.
I would appreciate it if you didn't make assumptions about me, it only belies your own prejudices. That said, I am well aware of the story.

Many Biblical topics have been debated at length. Until the last century, the "Mark of Cain" was believed to be the cause for 'blacks', and was justification for racism and slavery.
 
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Dear Wiccan_child,
It wasn't monogamous, since he was married to both Michal and Jonathan (Saul, to David: "Thou shalt this day be my son-in-law, in the twain").
Excuse my sarcasm but he wasn’t married to a little black mouse called ‘squeaky’ either, no mention of either. Sorry where does the story say his relationship with Jonathan was marriage?

Notice also that Samuel considered David's homosexual marriage to be equal his heterosexual marriage.
I notice there wasn’t even a marriage between David and anyone expect Michael at the time of his deep friendship with Jonathan.

I would appreciate it if you didn't make assumptions about me, it only belies your own prejudices. That said, I am well aware of the story.
Sorry but I don’t seen any evidence from the story to support what you claim and all I have said about Jonathan and David’s friendship and his marriage to Michal has been said before.
 
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