I have been through the hardships of life, i'm no stranger to how the world works. I know about spiritualism because i know about the pain of the soul. I know the deceptions of this world as well, the ones we all face inevitably.. There are no illusions left in my life. If only you could feel what i've seen. I have seen it all. Even what i didn't personally live with, i saw even that. I have seen the darkness of life. Illusions are for people who have strength to imagine. I have seen tired and hopeless. Seen the darkness of life.
To the degree that I am able to empathise with you, I do.
(I consider "I know how you feel" to be largely either illusion or mere platitude.)
You have "I know about spiritualism because i know about the pain of the soul."
While I strongly consider that the concept of a soul is itself an illusion.
(For many popular uses of the term: it's rather variable in definition. See also "spirit".)
"I have seen tired and hopeless. Seen the darkness of life."
For THIS I can say "been there, done that. "
(without any intent or attempt to score in a comparative darkness competition.)
How would you know you have no illusions? The whole point of an undetected illusion is that you are treating it as real.
"Oh, I can always tell people with autism" a lady in a supermarket once said to me, referencing a boy with clear signs.
That's a logic failure of course: how could she know if she'd failed to identify someone?
I passed her my National Autistic Society Identity and briefing card.
"But you look normal", she said, highlighting another of her illusions.
You could be right, about illusions and reality, having them correctly sorted and filed.
But I can't see on what solid ground you get your *certainty* from.
I hold that emotion and personal experience is not enough. Not for dead sure, which leaves open the possibility, small as it may be, of being wrong.
(no, I can't be dead certain about that...)