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First Service

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I'd like to thank everyone who has helped take the "edge" off my fear of exploring a new faith. My husband and I attended our first Lutheran service yesterday. All I can say is that I finally feel at home. From the moment we walked into the church, we saw folks interacting with one another - neighbors talking with neighbors - smiling, sharing stories and laughter. I could immediately tell that this would be different than the somber keep-to-oneself congregations I had been accustomed to my whole life.

Even though I had read up a bit about the order of the service and immersed myself into as much literature as possible in anticipation, there were moments that completely took me by surprise, namely by the way it just captured my attention.

The service opened with a short prelude and the pastor discussing concerns of the parish. How remarkable is that!!! Regular folks actually have a voice that appears to have been heard; that tells me the church is responsive to our local needs (while aiding those abroad is nice, they still have a tremendous sense of responsibility to their community - reaching out to the physical "neighbor" and immediately acting in the likeness of Christ).

I did see a bit of "flyswatting", or making the sign of the cross - not a lot of folks did so at the Gospel, though. The hymns were identical - I didn't even need to crack open the book to follow along. It was just a little suprising that the music director chose a much slower tempo than what I was accustomed and he played ALL verses. There was even a choir (with robes!) - something I hadn't seen or heard since I was a little girl.

Although I hadn't yet been born when the RCC's second Vatican Council convened, I immediately recognized that many of the traditions and prayers were hinting at the pre-Vatican II days. What really blew me away, though, was the perspective of the readings. Thanks to the pastor, this was the first time that I was able to fully piece together each reading into one full message for the day versus, say, a remotely connected first reading to the Gospel. It was about the Beatitudes. I remember in about third grade CCD (and again in maybe 9th grade), we learned what they were through a child's eyes. Yesterday, though, was the first time in my adult life that I can say I fully understood what was meant (as an adult) from each one. She (YES, she) drew upon real-life applications that really hit home - not in a scary preachy way as I'd been used to, but rather in a way that is practical and something I can relate to myself. I felt talked to, not preached at.

Something else that I didn't expect to see in the bulletin was in insert that had all prayer intentions - not just for those in need, but also for those in the military and in college. The pastor also had a moment for the kids to approach the altar and sit with her as she gave a really nice explanation of what the Scripture for the day was about, in a manner that the kids could really grasp.

Now, there is something I have to work on: the pronunciation of Amen (aahm-men versus A-men). I think that was the dead giveaway that visitors from another denomination were present! lol!!! There were three others who were received into the church yesterday: two were affirmed from another religion and one transferred from another Lutheran church.

I was a little puzzled by the attendance pad they passed around for which members and visitors alike signed. The only thing I could think of is that they don't record attendance by the offeratory envelopes. No biggie, just different.

Needless to say, I will definitely be returning to this church for this upcoming Sunday's service. We will also begin to attend a weekday service at another church on Weds just to get another angle and maybe see which one we prefer. Obviously, selecting a church home is not a decision to be taken lightly, so there is no rush. We really look forward to whichever church offers the best opportunity to learn about the faith through sermons and adult ed before making our final decision.

All in all, I can say is that we were pleasantly overwhelmed by the feeling of what a church community and how the message of the Word should be executed. As I mentioned before, our RC Bishop stated that we should "go where we are fed", well he must not have known the power of those words. I really felt "full" yesterday. :)
 

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Great news. I hope the light of Christ's grace shines brightly for you, and his Gospel of forgiveness takes new depths and transforms your life deeper and deeper.

You may have been blessed by having a preacher that learned lectionary preaching. Through different eras in the Lutheran church they have taught different styles/forms/goals of preaching. One of the better ones (IMO) are the lectionary preachers who were taught to utilize all the readings and the connections between them. Sometimes the connections are thin which can effect these sermons, but I always thought the style was a good one in that it made better use of the lectionary than other styles. Though, as all styles, it's not perfect.

I wish our church would list prayers in the bulletin, even if just for those in need. It's something that is not universal--I envy you.

There is no true "Lutheran" way to say Amen. It varies from place to place as well as circumstance. I use both (although I do say Ahh-men more).

The tempo thing will depend on the musician often too. I was at one church last winter where the organist played all the liturgy at lightning speed--eek!

The attendance pad, again not a universal practice, is a manner in which some churches learned to keep attendance. I think those who use it prefer it over offering envelops because not everyone gives money and not everyone who gives uses an envelop or check. Having subbed for a secretary at a church that did use those, I thought it was very helpful. At that church (LCMS) it was also helpful in knowing not only how many were there but how many communed (although not everyone signs those too, but they are good for records).

Children's Sermons though not universal are very close to it. Very common.

Get your fill next week. If you have not yet, introduce yourself to the pastor.
 
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Two other quick things:
the connecting to the neighborhood thing, that is one of the things I think the ELCA does very well--much better in general than the other Lutherans.

The other thing, is did you husband go (and how did he like it if he did)?
 
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Two other quick things:
the connecting to the neighborhood thing, that is one of the things I think the ELCA does very well--much better in general than the other Lutherans.

The other thing, is did you husband go (and how did he like it if he did)?

Yes, he attended and very much enjoyed it. We've been talking a lot about our views since, and I really feel it has drawn us much closer together, not just spiritually, but it also led to several other discussions. We came from different upbringings (his family had not been very faith-filled at all) and I suspect he became RC just to "belong" with me before we married. He never talked about faith, the previous mass or his beliefs, but I just assumed he was "on board" because he went so far as to have joined the Knights of Columbus. Only recently, it became quite clear that he felt disconnected, unfulfilled and upset with the RCC, but his new outward excitement over shared beliefs and his comprehension of the Lutheran faith is unbelievable, (and it isn't just the novelty of the departure from the RCC). It's because we have found a faith community that truly seems to "get it".
 
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Yes, he attended and very much enjoyed it. We've been talking a lot about our views since, and I really feel it has drawn us much closer together, not just spiritually, but it also led to several other discussions. We came from different upbringings (his family had not been very faith-filled at all) and I suspect he became RC just to "belong" with me before we married. He never talked about faith, the previous mass or his beliefs, but I just assumed he was "on board" because he went so far as to have joined the Knights of Columbus. Only recently, it became quite clear that he felt disconnected, unfulfilled and upset with the RCC, but his new outward excitement over shared beliefs and his comprehension of the Lutheran faith is unbelievable, (and it isn't just the novelty of the departure from the RCC). It's because we have found a faith community that truly seems to "get it".

:thumbsup::amen::thumbsup:
 
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Yes, he attended and very much enjoyed it. We've been talking a lot about our views since, and I really feel it has drawn us much closer together, not just spiritually, but it also led to several other discussions. We came from different upbringings (his family had not been very faith-filled at all) and I suspect he became RC just to "belong" with me before we married. He never talked about faith, the previous mass or his beliefs, but I just assumed he was "on board" because he went so far as to have joined the Knights of Columbus. Only recently, it became quite clear that he felt disconnected, unfulfilled and upset with the RCC, but his new outward excitement over shared beliefs and his comprehension of the Lutheran faith is unbelievable, (and it isn't just the novelty of the departure from the RCC). It's because we have found a faith community that truly seems to "get it".

AWESOME
 
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Last night's evening service didn't happen. :( Our entire town shut down with the storm; it took about a half hour to watch all the cancellations scroll at the bottom of the TV screen ONCE, including all the PM services.
So, I'm patiently waiting for next Weds to try church #2.
At least I'll get to see how communion goes at church #1 beforehand this Sun. If the pastor is around early enough I'm sure we'd be introduced to her by all the kind folks who welcomed us last week.
Maybe that was supposed to tell me that church #1 really is church #1?? lol!!
 
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