Hey guys,
I came across Christian Forums a few weeks ago cause I just needed to vent a little bit and get some answers from other Christians.
I'm going through a really confusing period in my life. I'm 22. About to graduate from my second degree. Well, that's if I pass my re-takes. I just got my exam results back yesterday, and I failed half of my exams :'( re-takes are ending of this month. I just feel like breaking down. I just don't know what to do anymore.
This morning I was thinking back to the New Year service at my Church this year. At my Church we pray into the new year. I prayed so hard... I prayed for a closer relationship with God. I prayed for a boyfriend. I prayed for a sense of direction. I prayed for a job. I prayed for God to let me know what his purpose for my life was. I prayed about my exams and my law conversion course.
We're half way through the year, and so far.....nothing. I just don't know what to do. I'm praying as much as I can. Maybe i'm not praying hard enough? I don't know. Its this desperation that brought me to CF in the first place. Cause i'm worried that i'm losing my faith. And I feel so guilty when I think things like this because I know there are people out there with worse problems... But I don't think i'm asking for much.
Ok maybe its not the right time for me to have a boyfriend. And although I prayed about my exams, I don't think I worked as hard as I could have, so maybe thats my fault. But what about a sense of direction for my life??? I've been praying about that the hardest. Cause I don't want to just sit at home doing nothing. I actually want to be proactive but I don't know where to begin. I did this law course out of pressure from my mum and I don't even want to be a lawyer.
I just feel like my life is all over the place. And lately i've been feeling kind of distant from God. But I don't want to be! I bought Power of a Praying Woman and Lead Me Holy Spirit by Stormie Omartian. But lately I don't even feel like reading them. I just feel so frustrated. And I know Gods time is the best but.... I don't know. I feel like even if he doesn't give me the things I ask for, surely he'd answer my prayers about wanting a better relationship with him. I've been praying to hear Gods voice for ages and I still haven't. Wouldn't he want me to hear his voice??
Right now I honestly have tears in my eyes cause I don't know what to do. And I just remember all the stories people tell me about how God did great things in their lives. Miraculous things. And i'm like...why not me? Theres these group of girls who I fellowshipped with once, and we're all similar ages. And they were all talking about the first time they heard Gods voice. Or testimonies like how God spoke to them about what was coming up in an exam and those were the questions that came up. Or this one girl who thought she'd messed up really bad in her exams but after praying, at the last minute she got into the university she wanted. And i'm just sitting there thinking....great. When will it be my turn? And I feel so guilty because God has indeed been faithful to me and my family. And I know I should count my blessings... I just don't want to be sad anymore. I want to be happy and I want to hear him and I want to be confident in his love for me and all those things!
Sorry about the long rant. I know my thoughts are all over the place. I just needed to get some things off my chest I guess...
I came across Christian Forums a few weeks ago cause I just needed to vent a little bit and get some answers from other Christians.
I'm going through a really confusing period in my life. I'm 22. About to graduate from my second degree. Well, that's if I pass my re-takes. I just got my exam results back yesterday, and I failed half of my exams :'( re-takes are ending of this month. I just feel like breaking down. I just don't know what to do anymore.
This morning I was thinking back to the New Year service at my Church this year. At my Church we pray into the new year. I prayed so hard... I prayed for a closer relationship with God. I prayed for a boyfriend. I prayed for a sense of direction. I prayed for a job. I prayed for God to let me know what his purpose for my life was. I prayed about my exams and my law conversion course.
We're half way through the year, and so far.....nothing. I just don't know what to do. I'm praying as much as I can. Maybe i'm not praying hard enough? I don't know. Its this desperation that brought me to CF in the first place. Cause i'm worried that i'm losing my faith. And I feel so guilty when I think things like this because I know there are people out there with worse problems... But I don't think i'm asking for much.
Ok maybe its not the right time for me to have a boyfriend. And although I prayed about my exams, I don't think I worked as hard as I could have, so maybe thats my fault. But what about a sense of direction for my life??? I've been praying about that the hardest. Cause I don't want to just sit at home doing nothing. I actually want to be proactive but I don't know where to begin. I did this law course out of pressure from my mum and I don't even want to be a lawyer.
I just feel like my life is all over the place. And lately i've been feeling kind of distant from God. But I don't want to be! I bought Power of a Praying Woman and Lead Me Holy Spirit by Stormie Omartian. But lately I don't even feel like reading them. I just feel so frustrated. And I know Gods time is the best but.... I don't know. I feel like even if he doesn't give me the things I ask for, surely he'd answer my prayers about wanting a better relationship with him. I've been praying to hear Gods voice for ages and I still haven't. Wouldn't he want me to hear his voice??
Right now I honestly have tears in my eyes cause I don't know what to do. And I just remember all the stories people tell me about how God did great things in their lives. Miraculous things. And i'm like...why not me? Theres these group of girls who I fellowshipped with once, and we're all similar ages. And they were all talking about the first time they heard Gods voice. Or testimonies like how God spoke to them about what was coming up in an exam and those were the questions that came up. Or this one girl who thought she'd messed up really bad in her exams but after praying, at the last minute she got into the university she wanted. And i'm just sitting there thinking....great. When will it be my turn? And I feel so guilty because God has indeed been faithful to me and my family. And I know I should count my blessings... I just don't want to be sad anymore. I want to be happy and I want to hear him and I want to be confident in his love for me and all those things!
Sorry about the long rant. I know my thoughts are all over the place. I just needed to get some things off my chest I guess...