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fool4jesus

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[font=verdana, arial, helvetica]I m still inexperienced in sexual stuff so hope you guys help me ans this one:

A and her bf were fooling around, heavy petting and stuff. Naturally, her bf's penis area was a bit wet and he used his hand to wipe off the sperm from the penis. Then he used a towel to clean off the sperm from his fingers.
However shortly after doing that, he used his fingers to penetrate into her vagina.
The question is, is it still possible to get pregnant by such form of finger sex?
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This is more of doctors question..... In the extreme circumstance some could be under his fingernail and be passed along... that then leaves the travel to get to the egg..... and the few that get in most likely wont make the full journey....then again it only takes one ya know.
Can she...yes.
Likely...no.

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SarahAblaze06

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yikes.. i agree with mr.cheese!! i highly doubt she'll get pregnant, buuut uhhh.. i wouldn't be as concerned about taht as i would be their emotional state/spiritual. NOT JUDGING HERE.. but i would just hope that those two ould keep that kind of contact to a minimal cuz it usually just leads to bigger things. not saying that it will, but possibly. stay strong in the Lord, love u all!!
 
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There is the small possibility that she chould become pregnant in such a manner. She has also exposed herself to STDs. Sperm have also been known to travel through fabric. If she and her boyfriend are going to continue to be involved sexually, which is what they are, they are going to cpntinue to be at risk.
 
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How long can sperm live on environmental surfaces? ANSWER: They die as they dry out, so it depends on how quickly they dry. They also are killed by fresh water due to osmotic shock. Soap and detergents such as those used for laundering and hand washing also kill them, as these substances strip off the cell membrane of the sperm.
 
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She knows it is wrong and were terribly guilty and is determined to repent~
its her bf that admitted that he is afraid that she may get pregnant as a result of such activity. So what is a good way to give her peace? She is really afraid and both of them are very inexperienced in such things (me too) so I am not sure how to advise them. I don't think waiting until her stomach gets bigger is a good idea but she has no idea how to use a pregnancy kit.. help pls
 
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Pregnancy kits are pretty fool proof and come with easy instructions... basically you just pee on a stick and wait to see if blue lines appear or not!

Coping with the feelings and ramifications of sin don't disappear even thought we are forgiven if we repent. The only way to put her mind at rest is to do a test.
 
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I'm not 100% certain of this, but I think you don't have to wait for your missed period anymore before you do the test. Just go to the shop and get one - if you're really unsure ask the pharmacist. If you want to make double sure take a test now and one in a weeks time...
 
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EmSchmem

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She can always go to a pregnancy ersource center if she doesn't feel confident to do the test herself. She can find one online at www.optionline.org If you live outside of the US or Canada you can find a center at www.heartbeatinternational.org
You should wait 7-10 days before taking a pregnancy test. The manufacturers suggest waiting until a missed period though with irregular periods this is not always possible.
They can also tlak with her further about abstinance and offer her support in that area. Even if she is repentant (which it seems she is) she may need more support.

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Sailor's Wife said:
So the guy only wanted her just to have sex? What does the girl want? I'm sure she wants more than just sex....and you are bound to that....SORRY!!!!
Hopefully not just for sex but a kid without sex takes some of the fun out of it, at least for the guy.
 
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