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fellow sufferers?

geehollywiz

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hey all...

i am feeling a little alone on the boards, and i just wanted to know if there was anyone here who also suffers from either an eating disorder, depression, anxiety disorder, or self-harm. Although i havent self harmed in over 8 months ( yay) , i still do have thoughts, and i know how hard it is. i want to be a support to other people, as well have support to me from others. i hope that someone will read this and either, feel less alone, or want to help. thanks for your time.

luvv-holly:)
 

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I've got a pretty nasty case of depression. My mom is bipolar. I don't think I am but I try to watch myself for symptoms.
You hit the jackpot for a site with emotional disorders. We've got it all.
Lots of self-harm and eating disorders. Lots of depressions.
We've even got a few with more severe mental problems.

I hope we offer a source of love an encouragement to all.
 
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Youare definately not alone, I have depression and I am an SI. On this site everyone is here for you, I hope you can get better soon! Going for a run or brisk walk can help you with the depression sometimes. Good luck with everything and keep up the good work on not cutting! I will pray for you. I hope I can be of some help to you! God bless!

Your Sis in Him,
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by the way...i wanted to post about what i have got. I am currently in recovery for an eating disorder ( eating disorder not otherwise specified: EDNOS ) and Depression, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, I also have ADD pretty bad, and i am a bit of a perfectionist. I also have OCD tendencies. And I used to be a SI but i havent cut in 8 months.



luv yall-Holly
 
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Holly,
I'm new to the forums, but I can see that there are so many people out there who have various forms of problems. I think we all have some sort of self harm tendancies.
It may not all be in such visable forms as the cutting or eating disorders, but still harmful. Hooray!! for you on 8 months free from cutting. With God's help you can be totally free!
I have a terrible anxiety and panic disorder that is sometimes more than I can handle. I also have destructive tendencies like overeating, smoking and obsessive
spending, and I do things compulsively without thinking. Very, very destructive!
I guess we all really need God and I am so thankful that no matter what happens, I can always turn to Him and even if He doesn't fix things right away, He always comforts me.
 
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No wonder Christians get so depressed.

From the 'Age' tabloid in Melboutrne, Australia:

A prominent Salesian Catholic priest, described as the patron saint of kids, has revealed the brutality inflicted on students at the order's Victorian college, Rupertswood, where priests and brothers allegedly assaulted boys over decades.

Father Chris Riley, who runs the Youth Off The Street network and has helped about 45,000 street kids, says a pedophile Salesian brother physically assaulted him when he was a student at the college and he saw fellow students being abused.

School officials say much has changed since Father Riley's school days, not least that the college now accepts girls. But in his account of Rupertswood, contained in the biography Mean Streets Kind Heart: The Father Chris Riley Story by journalist and author Sue Williams, he recalls a time when he knelt in the chapel in tears every day asking God for help.

Former students of Rupertswood, a 50-room Victorian mansion at Sunbury, 35 kilometres north-west of Melbourne, have given detailed accounts to The Age of a regime of violence against them by priests and brothers at the then motherhouse of the Salesians of Don Bosco. They say physical violence was the norm and sexual violence was not unusual.

In his biography, Father Riley says some of the Salesians at Rupertswood "were absolute maniacs" and their violent conduct caused him to have doubts about becoming a priest.

When he went to Rupertswood in 1970, aged 12, there were 500 students, half of whom were boarders. Newcomers were not welcomed.

However, he became close to a particular brother who, angered one day when Riley spoke up for another student, punched him in the face and knocked him to the ground.

The brother then began to manipulate the young Riley, refusing to speak with him at times, then apologising and being friendly. He also threatened to kill himself.

"The brother's erratic behaviour, in addition to Chris feeling so isolated among the other pupils, took a terrible toll on the teenager," Williams writes. "In retrospect, what Chris experienced was common manipulative pedophile behaviour."

Father Riley, who was not sexually abused by the brother, said that he later discovered the man was a convicted pedophile.

In the book, he also recalls seeing about two dozen of the youngest students lined up outside the washroom as a group of brothers took turns to belt them on the backsides with a stick.

"He was incensed," Williams writes. "Chris faced up to the tormenters and shouted, 'You can't hit people, you're a Salesian. This isn't the Salesian way'."

Victims and their parents who complained about the abuse in the mid-1980s to the Salesians and to various Catholic archdiocese, including the Archdiocese of Melbourne, allege their complaints were ignored and that their abusers were sent overseas to escape the law.

Father Riley, three times nominated for Australian of the Year, started his mission to help street kids 30 years ago and now runs projects in Victoria, Queensland and NSW.

He is overseas and could not be contacted for comment yesterday. But in the book, he says the violence at Rupertswood was perpetrated by a minority and he grew to respect most of the teachers, brothers and priests.

The head of the Salesian Order in Australia, Father Ian Murdoch, has not answered questions from The Age about Rupertswood.

A number of Salesian priests and brothers who taught at Rupertswood, including Father Frank Klep, have been accused or convicted of sexually abusing students there and at other Salesian institutions. Klep recently returned to Melbourne from Samoa to face further abuse charges and is on remand.

"The brother's erratic behaviour... took a terrible toll on the teenager. (It) was... manipulative pedophile behaviour."
- Sue Williams

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This has been going on since the dawn of Christianity.
All over the world, with the advent of free speech and media - it's only just come to light in the last 20 years.

What kinds of sexual atrocities have been committed before the liberation of mankind?

Why are so many Priests, men of the cloth, hiding their sexual perversion behind God?

No wonder Islam is taking over the world.

The planet, and all it's inhabitants would be free and happy id the world was free of hypocritical religions.#

Please prove me wrong!!!!!

And no, I'm not the anti-Christ.

Just a believer in mylself. I don't need perverts ruinning churches telling me what not to do in my short life.

I live mine without the fear of God.

Hence, I'll never be bipolar - coz I live by my conscience, MY GOD!!!

Any thoughts, anyone?
 
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Hey Doc...looks like you chose the Christian symbol when you registered, but you sound more like a scientologist. You can't straddle the fence...you can't be a Christian if you believe your own conscience is your God. Think about it.
And fearing God is not like shaking in your boots at the very thought of it. It simply means to have a reverent respect for Him knowing that He is all powerful and omniscient. And one other thing...there are lots of folks that are bi-polar or have many other disorders that are not Christians. God never said we would be excluded from humanity because we love and trust Him and believe in the Son who died for our sins. If God's own Son had to suffer, what makes anyone think that we wouldn't have to? Since the end justifies the means...we should all be grateful!
Jules
 
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I suffer from anxiety, depression, and self-harm. congrats on not hurting yourself...I know what the thoughts are like...they just keep coming and you just feel like you could pick up a knife and rip your flesh at any moment...but keep it up...I'm glad you've been free for such along time...I think for me it's only been a month.
 
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