Prayer Request Feeling Pretty Down...

[Karin12414]

So i texted him this:

"I'm sorry for getting upset babe... I just really wanted to make up today and it feels like the chance was pretty much cut down before even being presented... I just don't want to fight anymore... I'm so sick of fighting..."

And got this...:

"Aaaaaand it's about you. Would you like to know what I wanted? I I wanted to hear you respond to my real legitimate emotions or something other than hatred and cruelty and pettiness. I wanted to trust in the fact that you'd be kind to me and understanding.

But of course no. It wasn't worth stopping thinking and holding back for my account

You make me feel like a king. King [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. thanks so much for your sorta-apology tho"

I just responded "I'm sorry..." I don't know what else to say...

 

[faroukfarouk]

So i texted him this:

"I'm sorry for getting upset babe... I just really wanted to make up today and it feels like the chance was pretty much cut down before even being presented... I just don't want to fight anymore... I'm so sick of fighting..."

And got this...:

"Aaaaaand it's about you. Would you like to know what I wanted? I I wanted to hear you respond to my real legitimate emotions or something other than hatred and cruelty and pettiness. I wanted to trust in the fact that you'd be kind to me and understanding.

But of course no. It wasn't worth stopping thinking and holding back for my account

You make me feel like a king. King [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse]. thanks so much for your sorta-apology tho"

I just responded "I'm sorry..." I don't know what else to say...

If he sometimes vents, don't take it to heart.

He probably still would appreciate what you were planning to do in post #4.

Patience, patience, patience.

 

[faroukfarouk]

@Karin12414

 

[Karin12414]

If he sometimes vents, don't take it to heart.

He probably still would appreciate what you were planning to do in post #4.

Patience, patience, patience.

He ended up coming home really late and I was asleep... We got up today and I guess things are "okay"... neither of us brought it up... I'm just trying not to feel so depressed again... I worked so hard to snap out of it before and now it feels like it's all undone.... I feel like such a screw up... it's just sex.. and we are married... been together 10 years... I don't know what's wrong with me... why can't I do it...

 

[faroukfarouk]

He ended up coming home really late and I was asleep... We got up today and I guess things are "okay"... neither of us brought it up... I'm just trying not to feel so depressed again... I worked so hard to snap out of it before and now it feels like it's all undone.... I feel like such a screw up... it's just sex.. and we are married... been together 10 years... I don't know what's wrong with me... why can't I do it...

Well, yesterday in post #4 you already had more confidence. Don't worry; patience, patience, patience; and prayer.

 

[Karin12414]

Well, yesterday in post #4 you already had more confidence. Don't worry; patience, patience, patience; and prayer.

I guess...

 

[Karin12414]

Wow, just a few hours on here and I already am feeling so much better.

 

[Dave-W]

Wow, just a few hours on here and I already am feeling so much better.

Fellowship - even over the internet apparently - is always helpful.

 

[Karin12414]

Fellowship - even over the internet apparently - is always helpful.

I just feel so positive when I am talking about God with people, how can't you?

 

[Dave-W]

I just feel so positive when I am talking about God with people, how can't you?

Indeed.

 

[faroukfarouk]

I just feel so positive when I am talking about God with people, how can't you?

If we read John's First Epistle, chapter 1, fellowship with one another and fellowship with God the Father and with His Son Jesus Christ are all linked in the light.

 

[faroukfarouk]

Fellowship - even over the internet apparently - is always helpful.

For some ppl who are isolated, it's a lifeline. For others who can get out to local companies of Christians, but won't do so, it can also get in the way, so to speak.

 

[Karin12414]

I went home on my lunch break and my husband was there. He apologized for being a jerk and said the real reason he was mad was because he was feeling under appreciated at his job because he was passed over for a crew leader position despite being employee of the month 3 times in a row and being there for a really long time... He said it was wrong to take it out on me. So I think we are okay for now.

Thank you guys for your prayers and advice!

 

[Dave-W]

I went home on my lunch break and my husband was there. He apologized for being a jerk and said the real reason he was mad was because he was feeling under appreciated at his job because he was passed over for a crew leader position despite being employee of the month 3 times in a row and being there for a really long time... He said it was wrong to take it out on me. So I think we are okay for now.

Thank you guys for your prayers and advice!