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Feel like ur alone?

I've been feeling like this at my school.. i feel like almost all the christians are doing things that aren't beneficial to god's calling or god centered relationships... everything seems so superficial and lukewarm... it drains me and affects my relationship with god.. i'm wondering what i should do... i tried my best to find someone.. doesn't seem like anyone who shares my vision and desires... i feel strangely alone at school... church is the only place i get revived and re engergized.. then i get drained from school... maybe i went to the wrogn school? geez... finding someone is defintely not an option anymore... too much work to spend hours and hours finding someone...seems like i'm stuck like this... only looking forward to spending time with church people and sharing my struggles with them... many times tehy dont understand cuz they dont go to same school so its hard..
 

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Joining this message board was a good thing I'd say, I like to get refreshed on here when I'm feeling stressed, it helps me to know that there are others praying for me and thinking about me. It also helps me to remember that even though there's a lot of Christians out there not "walking the walk", there are lots who are, even if we have a tough time finding them! Try to stick it out, do you have any friends through your church? Maybe you could get together with someone from church mid-week for lunch or dinner or something just to talk and get refreshed. Or you could think about leading a youth group or working with younger children during the week. I will keep you in my prayers :pray: Welcome to CF by the way! :)
 
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So what if there are not any who see the same vision, all that matters is you do, be an living example of christ, instead of explaining or showing, live it, it says more living it than saying it amen, then slowly but surely others will begin to talk to you and say your different, be it friends or whoever, so when they begin to ask questions etc, thats when you let the love of God flow through you into them .
 
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