Feel like crying.

[bethrow]

Tonight dh and I went to our first counseling session and it was just wierd.
I'm not sure about so many things.
I wish that I was married to a Godly man instead of a worldly man.
I'm just so unhappy with him and our marriage.
I'm still so confused about what he wants and needs.
It just stinks. Why can't he just get it together?

All I know is that I don't think he loves me anymore. I think I hate him. He couldn't even tell the counselor why he married me. He can't even remember why he married me. What is that? It hurts that he's so bored with me and the only thing that makes him happy is our son.

To top it all off....tomorrow is Valentines Day and I'll probably get nothing because he's forgotten about it. That hurts most of all....I'm just forgotten about.
I know I'm supposed to love him, but I don't right now.

Please pray for me. I feel as if I have noone.

 

[gloryseven]

bethrow, I just put a post for you on the other prayer you posted, about having trouble with posting prayers. Please check it out.I hope helps.
Lord Jesus, you see the pain and frustration bethrow is experiencing. Please help her to rise above her feelings and emotions and to seek You and Your victory for her life through Your Word and help her feed her Spirit with the Scriptures, so she can overcome doubt and can receive from your Unlimited blessings for her life. Amen.
Lord, please bless this woman. Give her strength today and I lift her up to you and know you will answer according to Yourlove and will for her life. Amen.
Jesus, we adore You! Jesus, Jesus, thank you for Your Life, Passion and Death. Give us victory over doubts, our feelings and emotions and give us Your many blessings and manifestations of victory in our lives, families, marriages and financial and every area of our needs. Amen.

 

[SunMessenger]

Tonight dh and I went to our first counseling session and it was just wierd.
I'm not sure about so many things.
I wish that I was married to a Godly man instead of a worldly man.
I'm just so unhappy with him and our marriage.
I'm still so confused about what he wants and needs.
It just stinks. Why can't he just get it together?

All I know is that I don't think he loves me anymore. I think I hate him. He couldn't even tell the counselor why he married me. He can't even remember why he married me. What is that? It hurts that he's so bored with me and the only thing that makes him happy is our son.

To top it all off....tomorrow is Valentines Day and I'll probably get nothing because he's forgotten about it. That hurts most of all....I'm just forgotten about.
I know I'm supposed to love him, but I don't right now.

Please pray for me. I feel as if I have noone.

"Give Us Today Our Daily Bread"


In Jesus Name may God Almighty touch each of us with Love, Peace and Health.

May The Miraculous Holy Spirit be ever present with us and may God intervene to bring peace throughout our troubled world. In Jesus Name I Pray.


Amen​

__________________

 

[ivory]

Tonight dh and I went to our first counseling session and it was just wierd.
I'm not sure about so many things.
I wish that I was married to a Godly man instead of a worldly man.
I'm just so unhappy with him and our marriage.
I'm still so confused about what he wants and needs.
It just stinks. Why can't he just get it together?

All I know is that I don't think he loves me anymore. I think I hate him. He couldn't even tell the counselor why he married me. He can't even remember why he married me. What is that? It hurts that he's so bored with me and the only thing that makes him happy is our son.

To top it all off....tomorrow is Valentines Day and I'll probably get nothing because he's forgotten about it. That hurts most of all....I'm just forgotten about.
I know I'm supposed to love him, but I don't right now.

Please pray for me. I feel as if I have noone.

Hi, I have been in your situation for many years. I have been thru the same things your going thru. I have cried many nights to our Father. PLEASE KEEP PRAYING FOR YOUR HUBBY, inspite of what he say or do. Your the only one who can lead him to Jesus. That's the will of God. My hubby has finally come to Christ, after many, many years of crying and praying. He has a ways to go, but it a beginning. God is with you. Hang in there, no matter what he say or do. God Bless You!

 

[bethrow]

Thanks Ivory and everyone.
My original post was not good. I just felt so upset at the time.
It's just been such a difficult time and I don't know how much more of it I can take.

Thank you again.

 

[sistakrista]

PRAYING!

 

[Battle Maiden]

Tonight dh and I went to our first counseling session and it was just wierd.
I'm not sure about so many things.
I wish that I was married to a Godly man instead of a worldly man.
I'm just so unhappy with him and our marriage.
I'm still so confused about what he wants and needs.
It just stinks. Why can't he just get it together?

All I know is that I don't think he loves me anymore. I think I hate him. He couldn't even tell the counselor why he married me. He can't even remember why he married me. What is that? It hurts that he's so bored with me and the only thing that makes him happy is our son.

To top it all off....tomorrow is Valentines Day and I'll probably get nothing because he's forgotten about it. That hurts most of all....I'm just forgotten about.
I know I'm supposed to love him, but I don't right now.

Please pray for me. I feel as if I have noone.

I am praying for restoration for both you.

Battle Maiden

 

[Rut]

I shall pray

 

[SunshineGuest]

Tonight dh and I went to our first counseling session and it was just wierd.
I'm not sure about so many things.
I wish that I was married to a Godly man instead of a worldly man.
I'm just so unhappy with him and our marriage.
I'm still so confused about what he wants and needs.
It just stinks. Why can't he just get it together?

All I know is that I don't think he loves me anymore. I think I hate him. He couldn't even tell the counselor why he married me. He can't even remember why he married me. What is that? It hurts that he's so bored with me and the only thing that makes him happy is our son.

To top it all off....tomorrow is Valentines Day and I'll probably get nothing because he's forgotten about it. That hurts most of all....I'm just forgotten about.
I know I'm supposed to love him, but I don't right now.

Please pray for me. I feel as if I have noone.

I have been to marital counseling before. It can be painful but it can also be healing. Pray before you go to a session. That satan is hindered, that the counselor is the right one and leads you in the right directions, that yur husband begin to open and cooperate, and whtever need you know you have. Try going to a neutral place or restaurant afterwards. Sometimes going straight home or being silence or angry or hurt in the car can be counter-acted by being in a different environment first.

Be encouraged that he even went! Many men say 'no' so his presence should counter-act his words and attitude. You didn't take him at gunpoint did you? Men are taught not to open up so give that time to change.

I know you are hurting and praying but try to focus on yourself. This sounds strange I know but pick one thing even if it's small that directs your mind off your troubles. It could be praying here for others, reading, writing, art, etc. You will be amazed how it will help. You may be feeling hopeless and useless focused on HIS current attitude and perceived perception of you at this time. Remember HIS current 'reality' does NOT have to be YOUR reality. I know it's hard because a husband is the closest thing to you and the person you are most vulnerable to.

Lastly, try not to 'look at your watch' while waiting for a change. Remember the old saying - A watched pot never boils. On top of that counting seconds is neverending. God has a timing on everything. Look UP to God and not around at man. (Especially yours!) When you pray for others and they tell you about an answered prayer you may think - Already! That was fast! For you, probably not for them so think in reverse.

I pray that you and your husband will be able to work through everything, all the old issues be resolved, and your relationship restored anew even better than before.


Dear Father - Thank you for this couple. Please restore, renew, invigorate their passion for each other and for you. along with the counselor, help them to place you at the center of their relationship. If the husband does not know ou, let this be the thing that brings him to you. Strengthen the wife to be wise and glorify you. Thank you for this couple's restoration. In Jesus name, Amen.


Be encouraged! God is there because you invited him! The 'perfect gentleman' always resides and blesses where he is asked!

 

[silentpoet]

I pray you are comforted, uplifted and that your marriage is restored to the abundance God meant it to be.

 

[synger]

May the Lord of all comfort guide and keep you and your husband as you travel through this troubled time in your life. May He give your counselor wisdom and compassion, and may He soften both you and your husband so that you can hear one another, and learn to communicate better together. May He rekindle the love that you have for one another, and flame the embers back to flame. May He bless you both, give you godly counsel, and use this time to draw you closer together and closer to Him. And may He touch your sorrow-sick heart and let you know, REALLY KNOW, that you are beloved!!


canticum graduum levavi oculos meos in montes
unde veniet auxilium meum
auxilium meum a Domino factore caeli et terrae

I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills.
From whence cometh my help?
My help cometh from the LORD which made heaven and earth. (Psalm 121)

 

[HopeSeeker]

Praying for you and your husband.
God Bless.

 

[Ivy]

Praying for you.

And here's a Valentine from Jesus the Faithful and True:

Hang in there, my sister......you're loved by Him who is Love.

 

[burn97]

Almighty Father, let our sister's cries come before You this day. Free her O Lord from the sadness that has entered into her heart, from the darkness of the enemies grasp. Lord God, let her feel Your Arms around her, Your Grace surrounding her and Your Mercy overflowing inside her soul. O Lord, the enemy comes between this man and woman, his lies and his worldly desires filling our brother. Lord, send the enemy away from this marriage, let his grasp flee from the bond that you have made. Lord God, renew the love between this man and woman. Let them once again look at eachother with love, with patience, with strength and goodness.
Lord Father, bless our sister Beth this day. Fill her beyond measure with strength from Your Hand. Let all the goodness you have instore for her overflow this day.
In the Mighty name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen