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Father's Day

Loven God

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This year Father's Day will be hard for me . It will be the first Father's Day with out my dad . He passed away in Oct. I try not to think about it to much but every were I look on face book there are people all excited about spending the day with their father's . I know I should not be sad about it because my father is in heaven and I would not want to wish him back here but I still miss him so much . I offered to work the nuscery at church so I would not have to set in the Father's Day services to make it easier on me . I just don't want all of this to cause me to go into a depression all because I can not handle all of this what should be a happy day .
 

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I'm so sorry for your loss. Anniversaries can be so hard. Please be kind to yourself, everything you are feeling is normal. My Dad died close to Father's Day and I am missing him, too. I feel like crying and probably will. It's okay.
 
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LovenGod I think how your feeling is normal and that you shouldn't place any expectations on yourself. If you want to have yourself some good cries, you should do that and know that God bottles up every tear. In missing your father, may many wonderful memories of your father flood your heart and put a smile on your face and your family members. While I know there are many who are going to celebrate Father's day, there are just as many who are going to have a tough time for a variety of reasons. May you all experience God's loving embrace. God bless you dear heart.

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This year Father's Day will be hard for me . It will be the first Father's Day with out my dad . He passed away in Oct. I try not to think about it to much but every were I look on face book there are people all excited about spending the day with their father's . I know I should not be sad about it because my father is in heaven and I would not want to wish him back here but I still miss him so much . I offered to work the nuscery at church so I would not have to set in the Father's Day services to make it easier on me . I just don't want all of this to cause me to go into a depression all because I can not handle all of this what should be a happy day .

I know how you feel as this will be the first Father's Day I will spend without my Dad too. Mine passed away last August and although he was 84 years old it was a real shock as I'd been joking with him only 2 days previously. :( I miss buying him a present. I also think of him more now the World Cup is on as he used to watch that as he liked football (soccer to our US friends). Still at least we know we will both see our Dads again one day.:hug:
 
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((((((( hugs)))))) god bless you dear Ruth, :hug::hug:
I know it's hard. My father died too and nothing will ever replace him. :/ miss him too
Love you, may god comfort you :hug::hug::hug:
Thank you Jo. God bless you. {{{{Jo}}}}}
 
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Thank you everyone for your words of comfort . I will see him again that is for sure but until the the pain of missing him is still so fresh . I pray as the years go by that with each new year I will see him with God and know he is healthy and happy once again . But for now my heart still hurts as if it were yesterday .
 
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