OF COURSE WE MOTHERS ALMOST INSTANTANEOUSLY HAVE A BOND WITH OUR CHILDREN CAUSE WE CARRY THEM IN OUR BELLIES FOR 9 MONTHS...AND THEN MOM'S JUST SPEND A LIL BIT MORE TIME WITH THEIR OFFSPRING CAUSE DADDY IS THE MAIN PROVIDER AND THATS USUALLY "JUST HOW IT IS".....NOW I AM FORTUNATE THAT MY S/O HELPS WITH OUR CHILD AS I AM SURE YOU ALL HAVE HELP WITH THE CHILDREN BUT HOW HAVE YOU MADE THE BOND MORE SECURE WITH THE DADDIES AND THE CHILDREN...,JUST WONDERING..I HAVE MOMMIES DAY OUT AND LEAVE THEM TOGETHER FOR THE ENTIRE DAY...THIS HAS HELPRED..ANY OTHER IDEAS..AM I THE ONLY MOM THAT FEELS THIS WAY???????