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Once again a demonstration that it is somehow morally acceptable that if one cannot actually justify personal prejudice then falsely comparing a minority to some kind of criminal is perfectly OK.So if i were a murderer should i just be who I am?
So Gays are now on the same level as murders ? comn you can do better than that. Im giving you a time out. Go sit in your barney chair , in the corner unti,l you can tell me the difference between consenting adults and a brutal murderer.
Once again a demonstration that it is somehow morally acceptable that if one cannot actually justify personal prejudice…then falsely comparing a minority to some kind of criminal is perfectly OK.
Racists have used this same tactic for decades to justify bigotry.
OK - let's cut to the chase here.
He still is attracted to guys - that makes him gay or bi. End of story.
Yes, very sad. It's typically called "spiritual abuse" and it is a growing problem. This is defined as any time an individual, group, or institution uses religion to justify telling or showing anyone they are not worthy of gods full love and blessings. It's a very real issue, and is getting addressed more and more.
Good question, because any answer given cannot be justified without bias or measure.
Why is it so hard for people to accept him not wanting to be gay.
I'm just trying to figure out, why all the suspicion on him not wanting to be gay. Yes he's attracted to men he said so, but he his searching for truth. A truth that I hope he would find within.
If you feel for him, or in some time shared his feelings, why not support him and help him not be gay seeing that is what he wants. He is still young and should not be involve in sexual activities outside of marriage, so it is good that he is seeking to find out where his behavior is coming from and what to do.
Why is it so hard for people to accept him not wanting to be gay.
Good question, because any answer given cannot be justified without bias or measure.
AB-SO-LUTE-LY!!! Amen my brutha. It is exactly what drives me up a wall and gets under my skin. Thank you for pointing it out. Why all the language gymnastics and the need to use buzz words or key phrases that mean the same thing as what one word does. SSA.... honestly. In the need to be "PC" or the need to not come across as a homosexual, but feel more comfortable saying "same sex attraction" is a bit much...but to each his own. No different than those that "receive" saying "i'm not gay"...it's on those that "give" that are. All the same thing. That being A JOKE.Well the whole point is that he starts out his video by stating "Im not gay" but goes on to explain in this video and a subsequent one that though he has Homosexual attractions, that he is not Gay. He claims that he has "SSA ' (same sex attractions) . Now thats the issue. The whole exgay movement is full of a lot of buzzwords, that to me are nothing but playing semantics with words. I am White and Irish, No I am a person of color and of celtic origins. hey , guess what ? They mean the same thing. If he digs guys, guess what, he digs guys. But to use clinical terms that are part and parcel of the exgay movement, such as SSA, to me is being disingenuous. Why don't people just admit that they are attracted to men and move on. Instead, we get clinical terms and verbal gymnastics, trying to obsfucate the fact that one is really Homosexual.
That poor, confused boy.Ok here is a testimony from an Exgay that has generated a lot of Buzz. I listened to his testimony and I was more confused at the end of testimony then at the beginning. Soooo listen to this kids testimony and let me know 'what say ye" Is this kid Gay , str8, or in denial ?
http://youtube.com/watch?v=b2kI6_BiPG8
That poor, confused boy.
He needs to sit down and work things out.
"I never was gay...I'm not gay."
And yet he's attracted to men.
The church has sown some horrible seeds in him. They will have to answer for this sin.
agreedThat poor, confused boy.
He needs to sit down and work things out.
"I never was gay...I'm not gay."
And yet he's attracted to men.
The church has sown some horrible seeds in him. They will have to answer for this sin.
The whole concept?They just don't understand the whole concept yet. At least they are trying and have not given up on it like you and many, many others.
I agree, CT.That poor, confused boy.
He needs to sit down and work things out.
"I never was gay...I'm not gay."
And yet he's attracted to men.
The church has sown some horrible seeds in him. They will have to answer for this sin.
I agree, CT.
Matthew 18:6 But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depth of the sea.
.In the same way the men also abandoned natural relations with women and were inflamed with lust for one another. Men committed indecent acts with other men, and received in themselves the due penalty for their perversion.
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