Yojimbo said:
1) The author said hundreds was spent diagnosing the problem.
2) Kitties aren't born from humans; they weren't its "parents"
i don't think that any amount of money is too much to be spent on animals. i have read the article in full, and disagree that the animal was beyond help. and while you may think so, i'm not speaking from inexperience. my very first rescue animal, a three year-old golden retriever mix named dallas, had this very same problem with soiling the house. i was told he was housebroken when i adopted him; he wasn't. that surely could have been grounds for returning him, but i didn't. i went through several several several months of absolutely nothing working and spent a TON of money running tests trying to figure out if the problem was medical -- it wasn't. just like the author, i tried psychology, but that didn't seem to work either. i tried confining him, but he got so nervous that he destroyed the room. after almost a year, i was convinced that this dog would never be housetrained and that i would owe hundreds of dollars to the rental unit that i was living in for damages.
that was two years ago. this dog is still in my family, along with three other rescue dogs that had similar problems along with a host of other ones, one of which went through a prolonged phase where she had nightmares and would urinate in her sleep from fright, yelping and crying as though she was being attacked, and ruining our carpet/couch/bed in the process (and she's a st bernard mix, so she certainly incurred more than a small amount of damage).
each of these animals eventually outgrew their issues, especially with soiling in the house, and over the years, we've had to confront different and surfacing issues. but we deal with it.
b/c these animals are our responsibility. my husband and i recognized that we took on the responsibility of an animal that depended on us completely for everything, and that we could not simply shirk that responsibility when we grew frustrated. b/c trust me, there were definitely times that we were beyond the point of frustration that the author of the article had reached. however, we love these animals like we do our own children and while there have been times that owning four large rescue animals has been inconvenient (especially with traveling and trying to take vacations), we would never consider ending any one of their lives over it -- we love them too much and they deserve more than that. the problems that they have are results of being grossly mistreated by previous owners, and it isn't right to hold them responsible for other people's ignorant actions.
and i hold to my original opinion: i think it's a horrible shame that the poor animal had such awful parents.
"goldie was a pet, and he had ceased to be an acceptable one"? it's cold and callused. animals deserve more than that, and we, as their caretakers, need to stick to our responsibilities.