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Ex-Gf Problem

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Hi there to all believers.

I am currently struggling with myself about an ex-gf issue.

To make the story short.

We were in a long distance relationship, we rarely got to see each other but we loved each other so very much. I put so much love and effort into making it work, when I knew there would be a downfall and it came. She ended up leaving because she couldn't do it anymore. We had brief talks throughout our break up and it has been about a year almost till July or August when she left me.

4 days ago she told me she loves me when we talked for about 3 or 4 hours. She said that she wasn't over me and I told her I wasn't over her as well. However, I did not tell her I love her. When talking today, she told me she didn't love me in that way as she use to, now going back 4 days ago, she said I Love you as in. She love loves me. I sent her a message after she went offline that, I do love her truly and a ton still. That I am in love with her still.

I have put so much faith now into God to help me with this situation. I pray to God that he can help her realize in her heart and spirit that I am willing to be that guy to always be there with her and for her. I want to marry this girl. But we are still a distance apart. I want to be with and try to work things out. I ask God to just help me by giving strength and giving me the control of my emotions to help me win her back. I just keep praying and have so much faith in God that he will help her realize that I am that guy for her. I am a loving and affectionate person. I love this girl so very much and I want to be with her.

I pray every night, asking God, whether he listens to my prayers and questions or not, that he just help me win her back and let her realize.

Is there any suggestions on how I can bring her back from anyone?

All I have right now is all my faith in God that he will make this better and help us get back together. I'm not losing faith, but I am trying to build my strength to keep believing in him that he will make this better to bring us as one.

I just don't know where else to look. I'm trying my best to be faithful.
 

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God to help me with this situation

God will help you, but he may not give you the answer you want to head.

When/what made her all of a sudden discover she "still" loved you? Long distance relationships have an extra in the problem deparment just due to distance.

She may not be the girl for you, God may have someone even better in mind for you-but Trust His will is what's best--that's half the battle. Do you really want someone who God had to order to love you who did not really want too?
 
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