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My life has taken a drastic change that most teens my age come across at this time in their life. I am currently seventeen years old and after graduating high school in Montana, at the age of sixteen and in three years, I moved to California to attend college. Because of my age, my parents, and myself I suppose, decided that I was not ready to go off to school by myself, so instead I recently moved in with my Dad, who I have only spent time with briefly during summers. Living with my Dad I am able to attend a two year college while preparing to move away in the next couple years.
Montana to California is a big change. I find nothing desirable about California and miss my beautiful home-state very much. I left behind many great friends, family, a boyfriend, and a life that I was content and comfortable with. I come from a beautiful small-town where I am able to spend a majority of time outdoors doing everything I love to do; hiking, going to the lake, river, and simply enjoying the nature. California is a whole different story. Unlike a small-town, people are not often courteous and staying safe is sometimes a question. Comfortable is the last thing I am.
With my new life I do not receive much social interaction. I am not having the conventional, normal college experience. I do not experience living in a dorm, meeting people through shared housing, or engaging in "freshman activities" and campus parties in order to meet people. I live at home, do not have a car (I sadly had to leave my old, gas-guzzling pick-up back home), and go to school twice a week, to a college that does not encourage student activities, although I'm not sure this wouldn't even do me much good. I crave intelligent, deep, and creative people that I can relate to, but this is not a place that harbors many of these sorts of people. Most kids my age that I meet are concerned with partying and conversations with them often are shallow. Because of these obstacles I have lived here for a month and have met virtually no one. Suddenly, this is beginning to have an effect on me. I've begun getting very lonely, pitying myself, dedicating most of my time to reading and watching season after season of TV shows. I am jealous of friends back home, still in high school, and of friends off in college, living in dorms, easily meeting new people.
Finding a church and attending are also proving to be challenges. Without a car I have to rely on my Dad for rides anywhere. My Dad, who considers himself an Atheist, is not the most avid church-goer as you would imagine. He does not consider getting me to church as a top priority, which is killing me. I want to go. In fact, I need to go. What I need more than anything right now is God and because of these negative emotions of mine and car-issues (which is ridiculous), I am having a hard time being with him.
I apologize for my sob-story, but I very much need Christian comfort and guidance right now. Any advice, sympathy, or inspiration would be amazing.
I need good people to talk to. I know you all are.
Thank you!
Montana to California is a big change. I find nothing desirable about California and miss my beautiful home-state very much. I left behind many great friends, family, a boyfriend, and a life that I was content and comfortable with. I come from a beautiful small-town where I am able to spend a majority of time outdoors doing everything I love to do; hiking, going to the lake, river, and simply enjoying the nature. California is a whole different story. Unlike a small-town, people are not often courteous and staying safe is sometimes a question. Comfortable is the last thing I am.
With my new life I do not receive much social interaction. I am not having the conventional, normal college experience. I do not experience living in a dorm, meeting people through shared housing, or engaging in "freshman activities" and campus parties in order to meet people. I live at home, do not have a car (I sadly had to leave my old, gas-guzzling pick-up back home), and go to school twice a week, to a college that does not encourage student activities, although I'm not sure this wouldn't even do me much good. I crave intelligent, deep, and creative people that I can relate to, but this is not a place that harbors many of these sorts of people. Most kids my age that I meet are concerned with partying and conversations with them often are shallow. Because of these obstacles I have lived here for a month and have met virtually no one. Suddenly, this is beginning to have an effect on me. I've begun getting very lonely, pitying myself, dedicating most of my time to reading and watching season after season of TV shows. I am jealous of friends back home, still in high school, and of friends off in college, living in dorms, easily meeting new people.
Finding a church and attending are also proving to be challenges. Without a car I have to rely on my Dad for rides anywhere. My Dad, who considers himself an Atheist, is not the most avid church-goer as you would imagine. He does not consider getting me to church as a top priority, which is killing me. I want to go. In fact, I need to go. What I need more than anything right now is God and because of these negative emotions of mine and car-issues (which is ridiculous), I am having a hard time being with him.
I apologize for my sob-story, but I very much need Christian comfort and guidance right now. Any advice, sympathy, or inspiration would be amazing.
I need good people to talk to. I know you all are.
Thank you!