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bobbarry - your story mirrors many of our own. In my younger years, I also drank. It started with a few beers and ended in nights of drinking hours upon hours with my friends and having them pick me up and put me in bed at night. I came to the point where I was dependent upon it and it was an everyday thing - not just the social aspect or party, but in my home as a constant presence. This changed when the Holy Spirit convicted me of my sins and I stopped drinking entirely. I cannot count the years since I last had a drink and I have no desire, temptation of concern otherwise about alcohol. I attend parties, business dinners, and even sometimes have to meet friends at the local bars for some reason or other. Still - I have no issues thanks to my choice, which was guided by the Holy Spirit.

My Friend - you can't simply tell us that if we truly have the Holy Spirit it will cleanse us of the sins we have, removing all desire and ability to sin - and then tell us that you had the Holy Spirit at one point - but it didn't work the way you said it should. I don't care if it's homosexuality, drunkeness, or any other sin, by your statements - you have said there is no sin that should be able to claim you in that way.

I'm not trying to antagonize or condemn you, but simply show you that this is where all that you have been saying doesn't bear out. If you or anyone else lived totally free of sin and you could show me an example, I might be able to believe what you say, but no such example exists that I know of.

I agree that simply reading the Bible, attending church and praying doesn't always work out for many people - especially if you are letting sin control your desires, thoughts and actions. This is the curse of the flesh that we carry. Temptation is there and the potential for sin exists - which we have a way to defeat - when we follow the Holy Spirit.

What you fail to realize is that for all the statements you say that we live as defeated Christians - we're not. We have conquered death already and most of us live with hope in that knowledge, which I think is the main point that Jesus tries to show us.
 
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Thank you for sharing my good man.


In my whole lifetime i have never ever seen the same spirit in any church. And i dont think anyone i ve came across at least on this forum has that spirit i talk of at present...i know by the way we talk and the things we say on here and how qwick we are to condemn each other etc. I can't and wont deny you had this same spirit that convicted you all them years ago, or that other people on here have had it in the past and i dont doubt your salvation, the chances are some or many of us have. But we dont have it now that much i will say. And we need to get it back because it's that very spirit that will give us victory over our sins without trying in any of our own effort i know that for sure and that alone has got to question what we've been teaching on here, in regards to trying harder against sin. I bet more people have been baptised in that spirit that dont/never been to church than do go, that do the usual read,pray,fast,try harder rely on god even though we're praying/reading/fasting then saying you do it yourself, we're working then we;'re saying you do it mantra that we follow...and it's not down to God. Thats not a coincidence, people are actually losing that same spirit after we're going to church and following the mantra, what i m saying is it's time to do it differently and watch God bless us the here and now. What i m saying is it's the bible reading thats stopping that happen it's holding us back we're trying to outsmart god, we need to put it down and pray instead for it until we get it then we pick up our bibles and then you'll have the life jesus talked of, and it cant be any clearer than that.


I appreciate your reply
 
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Dear Bluelion. Many of us think:" Why did I? I wish I had never done it."
But sadly, whatever we did we cannot make it undone. We live in an imperfect world, and it is impossible for us " NOT TO SIN." God know s that, and we are given much time to learn to become more and more, as God wants us to become. In Matthew 22: 35-40: Jesus tells a Lawyer: " The first and great Commandment is: Love God with all thy heart, with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. The second is like it: LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR AS THYSELF."
Jesus is talking to a Lawyer, an ordinary man. Then Jesus points out this great
truth: " On these two Commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets."
( all the Bible) What does God want us to do? We are told in Matthew 7:7-10,
" Ask and ye shall receive," and we ask God for Love and Joy, then we thank God, and then we share all Love and Joy with our neighbour: i.e. all we know
and all we meet, friends and not friends. Jesus our Saviour will help and guide us: JESUS IS THE WAY. We keep asking for Love and Joy, then we thank God, and share all Love and Joy with all around us. we might stumble or forget at times, but then we ask God to forgive us, and carry on: Loving and Caring.
The Bible tells us to "Repent," and also to "Be Born Again." We have to change our old character of selfishness, to become Loving and Caring. That will not be easy, but GOD WANTS IT FROM US, and Jesus will help and guide us, remember: " Ask and ye shall receive." Love is a Christian`s great weapon, with Love we can overcome all wrong, Love will always be the Victor.
Let us remember, Bluelion. " ask and ye shall receive," and become the sons and daughters which God wants us to become. We cannot undo the wrongs we have done, BUT we CAN follow our Saviour back to God and let Love change us. God is Love, and God wants Loving men and women.
In Luke 10: 25-28: Jesus tells a Lawyer: " the two Commandments to Love God with all thy heart, with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, also: Love thy neighbour as thyself, is what God wants from us: DO THIS AND YE SHALL LIVE." I say this with love. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.
 
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Dear Bluelion. Many of us think:" Why did I? I wish I had never done it."
But sadly, whatever we did we cannot make it undone. We live in an imperfect world, and it is impossible for us " NOT TO SIN." God know s that, and we are given much time to learn to become more and more, as God wants us to become. In Matthew 22: 35-40: Jesus tells a Lawyer: " The first and great Commandment is: Love God with all thy heart, with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. The second is like it: LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR AS THYSELF."
Jesus is talking to a Lawyer, an ordinary man. Then Jesus points out this great
truth: " On these two Commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets."
( all the Bible) What does God want us to do? We are told in Matthew 7:7-10,
" Ask and ye shall receive," and we ask God for Love and Joy, then we thank God, and then we share all Love and Joy with our neighbour: i.e. all we know
and all we meet, friends and not friends. Jesus our Saviour will help and guide us: JESUS IS THE WAY. We keep asking for Love and Joy, then we thank God, and share all Love and Joy with all around us. we might stumble or forget at times, but then we ask God to forgive us, and carry on: Loving and Caring.
The Bible tells us to "Repent," and also to "Be Born Again." We have to change our old character of selfishness, to become Loving and Caring. That will not be easy, but GOD WANTS IT FROM US, and Jesus will help and guide us, remember: " Ask and ye shall receive." Love is a Christian`s great weapon, with Love we can overcome all wrong, Love will always be the Victor.
Let us remember, Bluelion. " ask and ye shall receive," and become the sons and daughters which God wants us to become. We cannot undo the wrongs we have done, BUT we CAN follow our Saviour back to God and let Love change us. God is Love, and God wants Loving men and women.
In Luke 10: 25-28: Jesus tells a Lawyer: " the two Commandments to Love God with all thy heart, with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, also: Love thy neighbour as thyself, is what God wants from us: DO THIS AND YE SHALL LIVE." I say this with love. Greetings from Emmy, your sister in Christ.

Thank Emmy. Loving others can be hard, some are harder to love then others, very true word though.

What gets me is i can not make up for things done, I can never give God anything that would be worthy of His gifts. All he ask for is my Love, and I am unworthy he ask I give my self and I do and He has my Love. Maybe it is satan accusing me before God that I look back and wish I could make it up. I have forgiveness and my sins are gone, in truth there is nothing to make up. God does not remember my sins so why should I? God does not want me to be tortured, so it must be satan.

Love is stronger than anything. I just want to love.

thanks for your post. cheered me up a bit.:)

Peace and Love
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