You are still be asked to perform a sort of mental gymnastics and suppress an otherwise healthy thought or emotion (say, lust).
Nobody said taking up your cross daily and following Jesus was easy!
I'd much rather converse with someone who is honest about this as you are, then a poseur calling himself a Christian. The guy in my tagline, Harry, seems to have a ministry in these parts of delineating the C boundaries. Since he's not here, if I might step on his toes:
"[This] I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. Galatians 5:17 For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would. But if ye be led of the Spirit, ye are not under the law. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are [these]; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told [you] in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.
But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.
And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts. If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit."
Humbling stuff! I would not try to make it easier than it is. The real point is, such a lifestyle is a miracle, every step of the way. That's why those you converse with here aren't merely discussing 'how many angels fit on the head of a pin,' but speaking from experience.