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150 years ago: The abolition of slavery

100 years ago: The emancipation of women

50 years ago: Inter-racial marriage

Today: Same-sex relations

Why is it that the church always has to be dragged kicking and screaming (by secular outrage) towards the tolerance and compassion that, ironically, it claims to hold a monopoly on?
The church was at the forefront of both the abolition of slavery and women's sufferage. What revisionist history books have you studied?
 
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150 years ago: The abolition of slavery

100 years ago: The emancipation of women

50 years ago: Inter-racial marriage

Today: Same-sex relations

Why is it that the church always has to be dragged kicking and screaming (by secular outrage) towards the tolerance and compassion that, ironically, it claims to hold a monopoly on?

Secular outrage? Are you referring to the high financed political groups which are pushing for 'tolerance'. The blitzkreig which is taking down morality has nothing to do wtih Jack and Jill American so much as it has to do with George Soros et al wanting a weak population they can enslave under the North American Union like they did the EU.
 
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I don't see that the case at all. The ONLY reason women were able to come out of the harem was the influence of Biblical Hebrew and later Christian influences. Slaves existed before and they will likely exist again. It all depends on how we view our neighbors.
The ‘harem’, concubines, polygamy and the owning of slaves are all biblically supported
 
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Gotta love that slippery slope argument...if two men or two women are allowed to marry, then what's next? Cats and dogs? Man, that sounds familiar:


“[If interracial couples have a right to marry], all our marriage acts forbidding intermarriage between persons within certain degrees of consanguinity are void.”
Source: Perez v. Lippold, 198 P.2d at 40 (Shenk, J., dissenting, quoting from a prior court case)

“The underlying factors that constitute justification for laws against miscegenation closely parallel those which sustain the validity of prohibitions against incest and incestuous marriages.”
Source: Perez v. Lippold, 198 P.2d at 46 (Shenk, J., dissenting, quoting from a prior court case)

“[T]he State's prohibition of interracial marriage . . . stands on the same footing as the prohibition of polygamous marriage, or incestuous marriage, or the prescription of minimum ages at which people may marry, and the prevention of the marriage of people who are mentally incompetent.”
Source: Excerpted United States Supreme Court oral argument transcripts from Loving v. Virginia, from Peter Irons and Stephanie Guitton, eds., May it Please the Court (1993) at 282-283, quoting Virginia Assistant Attorney General R. D. McIlwaine, arguing for Virginia's ban on interracial marriage

Like I have said before, it is amazing that those opposed to same-sex marriages are using the same arguments that those opposed to interracial marriage used. It's like cheating on a test, but choosing to copy the dumbest kid in the class' paper. ^_^

For more quotes, look here. (.pdf format)
 
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Gotta love that slippery slope argument...if two men or two women are allowed to marry, then what's next? Cats and dogs? Man, that sounds familiar:


“[If interracial couples have a right to marry], all our marriage acts forbidding intermarriage between persons within certain degrees of consanguinity are void.”
Source: Perez v. Lippold, 198 P.2d at 40 (Shenk, J., dissenting, quoting from a prior court case)

“The underlying factors that constitute justification for laws against miscegenation closely parallel those which sustain the validity of prohibitions against incest and incestuous marriages.”
Source: Perez v. Lippold, 198 P.2d at 46 (Shenk, J., dissenting, quoting from a prior court case)

“[T]he State's prohibition of interracial marriage . . . stands on the same footing as the prohibition of polygamous marriage, or incestuous marriage, or the prescription of minimum ages at which people may marry, and the prevention of the marriage of people who are mentally incompetent.”
Source: Excerpted United States Supreme Court oral argument transcripts from Loving v. Virginia, from Peter Irons and Stephanie Guitton, eds., May it Please the Court (1993) at 282-283, quoting Virginia Assistant Attorney General R. D. McIlwaine, arguing for Virginia's ban on interracial marriage

Like I have said before, it is amazing that those opposed to same-sex marriages are using the same arguments that those opposed to interracial marriage used. It's like cheating on a test, but choosing to copy the dumbest kid in the class' paper. ^_^

For more quotes, look here. (.pdf format)
Great post. :thumbsup:

Thanks for the research and the link
 
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So what did the author of the bible call the third and fourth and fifth wives of a good Hebrew man? God called them wives…thus Godly support.
Semantics. A wife is a wife is a wife. Calling someone what they are, a wife, does not mean you are happy with the marriage.
 
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So when God called them wives he didn’t know what he was talking about
When God called them wives he was calling them what they were. It's hardly a difficult concept. It doesn't mean that God approves of every marital configuration. If it looks like a duck, and walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, you may rightly calll it a duck. That doesn't mean you have to approve of all ducks.
 
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And there were many Ministers and theologians who supported slavery and opposed the emancipation of women and many who opposed civil rights.
Very true. But the OP contends that the church in toto always needs to be "dragged kicking and screaming (by secular outrage) towards...tolerance and compassion ". That is simply and demonstrably untrue. A great portion of the church has ALWAYS opposed slavery and was instrumental in the progress of women's rights.
 
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Very true. But the OP contends that the church in toto always needs to be "dragged kicking and screaming (by secular outrage) towards...tolerance and compassion ". That is simply and demonstrably untrue. A great portion of the church has ALWAYS opposed slavery and was instrumental in the progress of women's rights.

And you claimed the church (in toto ) led the fight for the abolition of slavery and equality for women, and that anyone saying differently was guilty of revising history to suit some agenda. Yet how is your claim possible when obviously a significant portion of the church was supportive of slavery, racism and sexism?
(I notice you chaged goalposts here…downgrading it to a “great portion”)
 
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Very true. But the OP contends that the church in toto always needs to be "dragged kicking and screaming (by secular outrage) towards...tolerance and compassion ". That is simply and demonstrably untrue. A great portion of the church has ALWAYS opposed slavery and was instrumental in the progress of women's rights.
And a great portion of the church -- the conservative, fundamentalist part -- had to be dragged kicking and screaming by the other portion -- the liberal, progressive part.

Now, it may not have been that way in Minnesota, but down here in the southeastern US the most vocal part of the church (and possibly the most numerous, at least among whites) was the conservative, fundamentalist part that did not want equal rights for non-whites and could quote scripture backing up their position.
 
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