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PuppyforChrist

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Oh dear Lord... Everyone, I have terrible, terrible news. Taxsgirl317, I think I spelled her name wrong but you know who I am talking about.

But anyway, I'm writing this to all of you to please pray for her. Latley she has been lost and confused. She and I were talking one night and suddenly she just told me that she was going away for a while, and thank you for being such a good friend to her. I wasn't sure why she was telling me all this, but I figured that she was maybe going on vacation to help collect her thoughts.

Well it wasn't until a little later, she accidently IMed my screen name by accident saying things like she didn't want to live anymore, and she wasn't getting anywhere in life. I was such in shock I didn't know what to say to her. She just said "Oops, wrong window, sorry" Which makes sense cause everyone does that once in a while, but this was serious. And I'm kicking myself for not doing anything about it.

I think you all know where I am going with this now.

Her mom just IMed me a few minutes ago. She commited sucide and is now in a coma and on a ventillator. She told me that the Doctors said that if she does not start breathing on her own in 5 days, they will take her off the ventillator. They say if she does make it, there is a good chance that she will be a vegetable.

I am crying right now as I write this. I feel like it is all my fault. Why didn't I see it sooner!? I could have stopped her!

Please everyone, I'm begging you all to pray for her survival. I am so upset.

Please keep this thread going so that all of CF can read this and pray for her. She needs all the help she can get.

May God be with her always... :cry::cry::cry:
 

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did her mom happen to say how she did it?

i'm a lil skeptical to believe this... :scratch:

whats her mom doing online, telling complete strangers her daughter just tried to off herself. shouldn't she be at the hospital?

i hate to say it.. but i don't buy it.
seen enough phoney online suicides to know the difference.

my apologies if i am wrong, and cold hearted.

i do think the chick needs prayers...and she has mine. i feel for her..she's gotta be hurting or bored to keep pullin these drama scenes off. i seem to recall a thread few monthes back that was just as attention seeking..

puppyforchrist: don't blame urself. its the internet. u can't save ppl online.. u can be their friend. u can care about em. but you can't save them.
 
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Urbanfaerie - She was at the hospital all day. She was forced to come home by the nurses. Because of her daughter's condition she was unable to see her for very long.

I'm not sure why she was online talking to complete stangers, but I guess it's because she was so upset over what happened that she wanted to let all her friends know so that we could pray for her. Everyone is different. Some keep things like this to themselves, others don't.

I'm sure I don't know her as well as Punkchick does, but I know in my heart that her mom was not lying. I just have a strong feeling about it.

Whether you want to believe what happened or not I still think we should pray for her. It is what God would want us to do right?

I can understand how someone can be skeptical about this, but I believe her.
 
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urbanfaerie said:
did her mom happen to say how she did it?

i'm a lil skeptical to believe this... :scratch:

whats her mom doing online, telling complete strangers her daughter just tried to off herself. shouldn't she be at the hospital?

i hate to say it.. but i don't buy it.
seen enough phoney online suicides to know the difference.

my apologies if i am wrong, and cold hearted.

i do think the chick needs prayers...and she has mine. i feel for her..she's gotta be hurting or bored to keep pullin these drama scenes off. i seem to recall a thread few monthes back that was just as attention seeking..

puppyforchrist: don't blame urself. its the internet. u can't save ppl online.. u can be their friend. u can care about em. but you can't save them.
I agree. But... :prayer: :pray:
 
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KristiXP

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urbanfaerie said:
did her mom happen to say how she did it?

i'm a lil skeptical to believe this... :scratch:

whats her mom doing online, telling complete strangers her daughter just tried to off herself. shouldn't she be at the hospital?

i hate to say it.. but i don't buy it.
seen enough phoney online suicides to know the difference.

my apologies if i am wrong, and cold hearted.

i do think the chick needs prayers...and she has mine. i feel for her..she's gotta be hurting or bored to keep pullin these drama scenes off. i seem to recall a thread few monthes back that was just as attention seeking..

puppyforchrist: don't blame urself. its the internet. u can't save ppl online.. u can be their friend. u can care about em. but you can't save them.

I am skeptical about this as well. I feel as if this is another way of seeking attention. I talked to her "mom" online as well a while back when Whitley was "pregnant" and her "mother" had the same online personality as Whitley.

Although this could be true, I feel it is not. Either way my prayers go out to Whitley, but I'm praying for this girl to find guidance in God and a friend in God. Only the Lord knows what's going on in this young girls life.
 
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Let's see, this is what I can remember (I initially joined CF in late April, so there might have been previous stuff):

* got unexpectedly pregnant by boyfriend Cody,
* was stressed out by it,
* had a miscarriage (the 'boyfriend' told us, through her account)
* got into a car accident,
* had a brief coma,
* came online a day or two later, seemed fine,
* 'permenately' logged out, saying she didn't 'feel wanted here' at CF (after we seemed skeptical and asked if she had a compound fracture, too)
* I noticed her name was still in the 'people online' list...
* she posted online a few days later
* out of the blue talks about this new online boyfriend she wanted to meet,
* I asked "what happened to Cody" but never got a reply,
* 'mom' now has different account (same writing style, I noticed),
* told us that Tsax took family car and fled to Mexico or something like that to meet new online boyfriend
* was away from home for a few days
* comes online and says she'll 'go home' on such-and-such date

I've lost track after that. If I missed something, please add it to the list. Tragedy after tragedy after tragedy.... and I truly do feel pity if all this stuff if legit.
 
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I am going to close this thread down for a bit before it becomes a "Yes she did, no she didn't" kind of thing. All I ask is that whatever you think, please be in prayer for Whitley. If this suicide attempt is true, she needs prayer. If is isn't true, than she still needs prayer for even contemplating it. Thanks!

*Mod Hat Off*
 
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