Embarrasing Question

[Give'imGlory]

To be honest when my wife allowed me to do this thing with her it was a selfish act. The pleasure was almost always mine. She got used to it somewhat but it would still hurt. Now to clear things up. When we did this we were'nt exactly looking for God. We parted from the Lord shortly after getting married. I must come clean here... when I wanted to do this and while we did it I began to loose respect for her. I am now reconciled with the Lord and I sorta always new anal sex was wrong but I ignored the feeling. At this moment I strongly believe that it is a sin even with your wife. The reason I feel this way is because every time we di it I feel convicted and just awful about it. Besides...the rectum was'nt designed for re-entry. I've had a similar question for some time now but on the opposite. I've never considered oral sex to be sodomy. I dont feel convicted when I do it to my wife and I dont feel convicted when she does it to me. Does anyone have some insight on the matter of oral sex being wrong in mariage?

 

[karenlynne1]

I enjoy both anal and oral sex;I also like the rear position for intercourse best.Deeper penetration.Nothing is forbitten between a husband and wife.

 

[Why?]

My husband and I both enjoy anal sex. I do not believe that it is wrong (a sin) to have anal sex within a marriage. Whatever you feel comfortable with is up to you.

 

[herev]

Nothing is forbitten

Was that a Freudian slip of the typewriter forbitten instead of forbidden?

 

[oldrooster]

Everything is allowed if you are married and both agree.....

 

[Nycky]

Everything is allowed if you are married and both agree.....

Does this include the use of toys for a woman's penetration of her husband?

 

[herev]

Does this include the use of toys for a woman's penetration of her husband?

not my choice, but why Not

 

[Oblivious]

Was that a Freudian slip of the typewriter forbitten instead of forbidden?

LOL - Nice catch!

The Bible does not condemn it. As long as you're married and you're in mutual agreement, sure, why not?

 

[Jenna]

*laughs* You guys are so funny! If you want kinky vampish stuff though, I'm sure that I could give some pointers. *disolves into laughter*

 

[WayneH]

Everything is allowed if you are married and both agree.....

Hopefully to each other

 

[jbaccus]

Finally, some other Christians that don't think it's inappropriate to talk about sex! I totally agree that anal sex is alright, IF your spouse is okay with it. Also, I agree that if a married couple wants to use "toys", or "kinky vampish stuff" (Jenna), then God bless it! They are married!

I asked the same question on another Christian forum site, and it felt like the whole subject was tabooed. Thank you so much for this thread! I'm glad there are others out there that are having fun with their marriages.

You people are awesome,
Joel

 

[NoneyaBiznezz]

You guys/gals crack me up!! Nice to see real people talking about real issues. I also believe that if husbad and wife are both game, ALMOST anything goes...lol

-Brian

 

[nenners]

Thank you so much for your thoughts. I have decided to ask my dh why he wants to do it, what pleasure he gets from it, and how he feels about me if I do allow it.