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See post #46, re. a verse someone quoted.Painfully wrong. Any time you open the skin, you take
a chance on infection and disease. Grooming never
draws blood.
What is the person who doubts struggles with OCD, doubting their motives a lot? It seems that so many things can then become sin if you aren't sure one way or the other.
See post #46, re. a verse someone quoted.
#46, a reasonable answer to a reasonable question, previously put.To use the God ordained, circumcision ceremony and the symbolic ear piercing ceremony of Exodus 21 as support for doing what ever takes our fancy to our bodies, is not handling God's word with the seriousness it calls for.
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Lots of Godly Christian women seem to be able to do this easily anyway.I hope that you will experience peace through the Holy Spirit to be able to get your ears pierced.
Well, exactly! I would have thought so, anyway.I think you will still be able to love and honor God and love your neighbor with pierced ears!
shelley1952:...my mom said if we were meant to wear pierced earrings we would of been born with the holes in our ears.
My mother said the same thing about if we were meant to have holes in our ears God would have put them there Himself. Though, I know God allows for creativity...He didn't create us with hairstyles and we design those or painted nails and a lot of us do that. Just a thought.This is my original statement and I stand by it.
what the Lord is trying to say about the earrings and flashy jewelry what it boils down to is vanity, pure vanity. Also I know as everyone does, people are going to do what they want anyway, a lot of times people are just wanting to find that one person to agree with them even if God had hung a sign on their front door saying thou shalt not but if that someone still wants to do it then finding that one person to agree then they will do it anyway. God gave us a free will to find out who loves Him enough to want to please Him and not man and since the roads in heaven are paved with gold then jewelry isnt going to be what pleases Him but I wonder sometimes how God feels when He sees His children do everything they can to get out of pleasing Him.
oh but yes, if you read all the posts, he was, plus he has done it to me before in other places but asking if I was saying we should not take care of our bodies well in my original statement above no where did I even imply that we do not take care of our bodies,please, thats a total insult !
Let me ask you tuliplane, you know in your own heart why you are wanting to do what you said your mom told you was wrong, my mom said if we were meant to wear pierced earrings we would of been born with the holes in our ears. Anyway, I am a woman who pierced my ears before I was a christian, I wore earrings for attention which is what my friends did it for too. I had to be honest that it was for myself as was most of my jewelry. So the question is why are you wanting to do it.
This is between you and God, I dont care its your walk not mine, I dont mean to sound uncaring but just speaking truth..
Another thing is all those people who are saying you dont have to listen to your mom and blaa blaa, be careful, God talks about honoring your parents ......
Eph 6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right.
Eph 6:2 Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise
Eph 6:3 That it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.
you decide what you think is right and who you are going to listen to.
Thank you DiscipleHetoo ! for reminding me of this verse.
Ah, yes, I almost forgot the Bible verse that people throw out there when they are doing questionable things and someone is trying to help them. They might not know anything else in the Bible but ah yes, this is their go to and stand on verse. This verse is the only good news there is in the whole Bible according to them.You can pretty well tell on these kinds of forums who are interested in pleasing the Lord verses pleasing themselves. Well whatever, we are truly in control of our own lives and each one of us stand alone before God and we all have faults in our lives and will answer whether we tried to deal with them or not. I may not know much but this I do know, I fell in love with the Lord and want to please Him, He comes first.
When I pluck my eyebrows, sometimes blood is drawn and that's grooming! Haha.Painfully wrong. Any time you open the skin, you take
a chance on infection and disease. Grooming never
draws blood.
Hannah Eckes:Can you have pierced ears and still love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength?
Can you have pierced ears and still love your neighbor as yourself?
shelley1952:
God bless the memory of your mom.
What do you think of the logic of what was said to you? Maybe it's similar to the assertion: If God had intended us to swim, He would have given us web feet?
Anyway, in Ezekiel 16.12 the Lord Himself is recorded as giving Zion earrings (and even a nose ring)...
Blessings.
This statements bothers me, "I also don't have a relationship with her at all anymore "you do not have a relationship with your mother at all anymore ? AND you dont feel you must listen to her, so you mean you dont respect her ?? Why, just because you are married ?But yes, I am not under my mother's roof anymore and married. I also don't have a relationship with her at all anymore, so I guess it seems irrelevant to me to feel like I must listen to her.
So do you wear earrings now?
When you say you wore them for attention, would you say that you had the intention of people noticing you? It seems like it can be a hard line to draw sometimes when someone wants to say, wear a really pretty outfit or jewelry and they aren't sure if they're wanting to wear something nice for attention or just because. Cause if you think about it, every thing we wear and do does go noticed, so maybe it isn't wrong for someone to want their outfit to be seen as long as the motive isn't out of haughtiness, pride, or trying to incite lust.
you bet I didwould you say that you had the intention of people noticing you?
Hi there; no inference at all; I was just repeating words you quoted which I now understand were not spoken to you anyway.Thank you, I have wonderful memories of my mother and no the saying about webbed feet was never used on me, lol.
Let me ask you a question....what are you inferring about my mother ??
I have only the highest respected my parents and still do even though they gone on many years ago now, my father being the last to cross over in 2003, my mother was in 1998. I may not of agreed with everything they said but I never argued with my father and never really argued with my mother but we did have a couple of intense discussions, no yelling and I am talking to the day they died both were in their in their 70s.Thats why the following below statement from tuliplane bothers me. I had a close relationship with my parents after I married, after I had my children and til they died, I respected what they said and any advice they gave me. I dont care if they would of lived to be over 100, nothing would of changed my respect for them and what they thought. Thats me, I was raised to respect others and their feelings. ( now I am not pretending they knew everything I did as an adult but it was out of respect for them I didnt tell them, Yes I had my ears pierced when in my rebellion towards God or really it was before God but after I became a christian and realized why I was doing it I quit.
Hi there; no inference at all; I was just repeating words you quoted which I now understand were not spoken to you anyway.
I guess this kind of issue is one where reasonable people will have various ideas about.
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