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MacFall

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I used to be quite reckless with alcohol when I was younger. Now I'm reckless and legal to drink.

I'm kidding. I have stopped drinking half as much as I used to but do still enjoy going out for a few drinks with my girlfriend at the weekend after a meal.

It's funny how often I hear that. It's almost as if legally restraining a person from obtaining something actually has the opposite of its intended psychological effect. :scratch:
 
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It's funny how often I hear that. It's almost as if legally restraining a person from obtaining something actually has the opposite of its intended psychological effect. :scratch:

There is something to be said for that. I have family who live in Germany and when we go over to visit all of the teenagers and twenty-somethings go out together. It's legal to drink beer at 16 and wine and hard liquor at 18. The German 16 year olds have a better respect for alcohol, put limitations on many drinks they will have (depending if we drove or took the train) and I've never seen any of the Germans have more than probably four drinks in a single night.
My American cousin, who is 22, had to be carried back to the train because she was too drunk.
Some food for thought.
 
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I'm from Glasgow in Scotland which has a terrible name for underage drinking etc and I find, by looking, that some kids who stand outside the shops seem to get alcohol a lot easier than the people who are of age. I have been asked for ID more since I became legal to drink than what I did when I wasn't.

I've never understood how you can be married and have a house before you are allowed to buy your first beer.
 
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I've never understood how you can be married and have a house before you are allowed to buy your first beer.

The control freaks just haven't gotten around to restricting the ages of marriage or home ownership yet.

Well, maybe they won't restrict home ownership. There's too much money in the politics of subsidizing it.
 
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I've been drinking since I was 16 at home (and I was in the US for most of my life). I don't get drunk (or rarely) and I don't do it on a regular basis but I see no problem with drinking if you keep yourself under control.
 
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I don't touch alcohol but have to constantly explain that it is not out of principle, but I hate the taste. I would prefer to be able to drink a glass of wine with a meal, for example, but would never get drunk as that is sinful.

Jesus drank alcohol, so I can never understand why so many Christians see it as wrong. It is wrong to be greedy, so should we stop eating?!
 
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