Hello! I’m new to this group. I’m sorry, but this will be long.
5yrs ago I developed feelings for a coworker, and I’ll call him Luis for now. We talked a lot at work and even ate lunch together. That stopped after I told him I liked him. He didn’t feel the same, so I wanted to distance myself a bit, but we were still on good terms. Before telling him, I started having dreams which I thought didn’t mean anything at first. I write down all my dreams, so I wrote these down anyway.
A few months after working together, a female friend of his begins working there. I’ll call her Lisa for now. I came in one day and was asked by my supervisor to train her. We became friends and she even asked me about Luis. She knew how I felt and that it didn’t work out. I guess they talked about it which seemed a little odd to me. But they had been friends since high school, so I guess they trusted each other. I assumed Lisa was inviting me to confide in her to help. Around that time is when I noticed my dreams may have had a message. Every time I saw Luis it was at work, he was usually being flirty with a female coworker, and both would try to keep it a secret from me. Each one always left me feeling horrrible. I didn’t understand why I was taking it so hard in the dreams. I knew he did not like me and that he was probably interested in the other girls at work. So seeing that in real life shouldn’t be a surprise. I definitely got the sense that I was being warned.
I worked at that job for about a year, then I started working somewhere else. Luis and Lisa continued to work there. I kept in touch with both of them via social media. The dreams didn’t stop and only became more intense. A few months later Lisa told me that she and Luis were no longer speaking. He was angry with her because she began dating someone at the job. I asked if she knew he had feelings for her and she said yes. I brushed it off, but I still wondered why she didn’t tell me. She breaks up with the first guy and shortly after tells me she’s dating someone else. I’m not sure why, but that’s when the meaning of the dreams clicked. I knew she was now with Luis. I also knew that she most likely told him everything that we talked about. Instead of telling me about the relationship directly, they revealed it on Facebook. I said nothing to them about it, I just immediately removed myself. I have a new account now, but I have never tried to contact them. The last time I spoke to them was 3yrs ago and I am sill dreaming about Luis. Earlier this year a friend request from Lisa came, but I realized she had done it by accident and immediately deleted it.
I did take the revelation of them together very hard. It didn’t last long and they are not together now. I thought the dreams would stop, but they didn’t. He keeps appearing except the situations are different from before. I can’t identify the feeling I get from it either like the previous ones. I’ve prayed about it many times. I prayed for God to remove unforgiveness or bitterness from my heart. I prayed that they find Jesus and everything. I’ve gotten a few different opinions on it. Most people blew it off and didn’t take it seriously, because I had feelings for the guy. Some said maybe it means he needs a lot of prayer. Like I said, I first met him 5yrs ago and every year since then I have had dreams about him. I’m hoping that this will not continue to go on, because I dont understand it.
5yrs ago I developed feelings for a coworker, and I’ll call him Luis for now. We talked a lot at work and even ate lunch together. That stopped after I told him I liked him. He didn’t feel the same, so I wanted to distance myself a bit, but we were still on good terms. Before telling him, I started having dreams which I thought didn’t mean anything at first. I write down all my dreams, so I wrote these down anyway.
A few months after working together, a female friend of his begins working there. I’ll call her Lisa for now. I came in one day and was asked by my supervisor to train her. We became friends and she even asked me about Luis. She knew how I felt and that it didn’t work out. I guess they talked about it which seemed a little odd to me. But they had been friends since high school, so I guess they trusted each other. I assumed Lisa was inviting me to confide in her to help. Around that time is when I noticed my dreams may have had a message. Every time I saw Luis it was at work, he was usually being flirty with a female coworker, and both would try to keep it a secret from me. Each one always left me feeling horrrible. I didn’t understand why I was taking it so hard in the dreams. I knew he did not like me and that he was probably interested in the other girls at work. So seeing that in real life shouldn’t be a surprise. I definitely got the sense that I was being warned.
I worked at that job for about a year, then I started working somewhere else. Luis and Lisa continued to work there. I kept in touch with both of them via social media. The dreams didn’t stop and only became more intense. A few months later Lisa told me that she and Luis were no longer speaking. He was angry with her because she began dating someone at the job. I asked if she knew he had feelings for her and she said yes. I brushed it off, but I still wondered why she didn’t tell me. She breaks up with the first guy and shortly after tells me she’s dating someone else. I’m not sure why, but that’s when the meaning of the dreams clicked. I knew she was now with Luis. I also knew that she most likely told him everything that we talked about. Instead of telling me about the relationship directly, they revealed it on Facebook. I said nothing to them about it, I just immediately removed myself. I have a new account now, but I have never tried to contact them. The last time I spoke to them was 3yrs ago and I am sill dreaming about Luis. Earlier this year a friend request from Lisa came, but I realized she had done it by accident and immediately deleted it.
I did take the revelation of them together very hard. It didn’t last long and they are not together now. I thought the dreams would stop, but they didn’t. He keeps appearing except the situations are different from before. I can’t identify the feeling I get from it either like the previous ones. I’ve prayed about it many times. I prayed for God to remove unforgiveness or bitterness from my heart. I prayed that they find Jesus and everything. I’ve gotten a few different opinions on it. Most people blew it off and didn’t take it seriously, because I had feelings for the guy. Some said maybe it means he needs a lot of prayer. Like I said, I first met him 5yrs ago and every year since then I have had dreams about him. I’m hoping that this will not continue to go on, because I dont understand it.
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I have a friend who has dreams about past friends all the time. They never end up relating to these people in real life. The people are only a means through which the Lord communicates that certain themes are taking place in his life. He had a girlfriend in high school, and the Lord uses her to communicate that things like filtration or potential temptation are on the horizon.
