Dream mate

[I'mHis]

Well, I know whoever God has chosen for me (if anyone), he will be perfect for me. But I know he has to be someone who loves Jesus more than anything else. I want him to be a serious Christian, not just someone who goes to church on Sundays. I want him to live it. I don't really want someone into drugs, alcohol, promiscuity, etc. Being a Christian, he SHOULDN'T be into that, but sometimes people fool you!! I want him to have a sense of humor, because I love to laugh.

 

[horuhe00]

My perfect mate would be Christian, first of all.
She'd be hot (As in guys would look at me with envy).
She'd be a virgin (As in... well, I don't have to explain, do I?).
She wouldn't hide her sexuality (As in she'd act like a woman and wouldn't be afraid of it).
She'd like to cook (Because going out to eat is EXPENSIVE, besides, I like a home cooked meal).
My last item on my list would be that she'd want to stay rearing up the kids. (Because since the home has been parentless, the kids have become heathen, addict, drinking, baby-makers.)

That's what I want anyway. Either way, I leave it in God's hands because He knows what I need better than I.

 

[Beauty4Ashes]

right there --->

Just kidding

 

[Phrasedefina]

hmmm well....

She would be motivated,
She would be beautiful (for the afore mentioned "other guys to be jealous" reason...it feels good, I have had a pretty girlfriend before and I like other guys to look as long as they don't get to blatant about it.)
She would be a good cook, but I would do half the cooking
She would have the hospitality of the Mexican culture's ladies (thats the best way I could put it)
She would have to be just as much a giver as I am
She would not be blonde (sorry...its just so played out)
She could be a virgin, but she doesn't have to be
She would have to trust me in the bedroom and not be afraid to try new things (after marriage of course!)
She would be educated and make her own money and be independent.

the list could go on...but those are the basics really

 

[TheseBlindEyes]

yeah this is a fun post.... although its difficult to say... can't get too specific... or be too picky...

so... happiness is key... happiness under God that is...
-first I gotta say... I always want to be able to say that I am getting stronger in my faith, so I would hope that he would always help me in that....
-and of course, he must be capable of having in depth conversations about faith, because I love to talk about everything...
-appreciative of the beauty of Gods creations, nature is so beautiful and people seldom truly take the time to thank God for it
-and how terrible it is to say he should be attractive... but I suppose we all have that shallow way about us... and yes I would like a somewhat handsome man... not too handsome though... (I'm a little insecure at times and I wouldn't want every girl hitting on him) and besides, if God sends me a man who is absolutely perfect for me, appearance isn't going to mean a thing, you get used to certain qualities about people you care for and they turn out to be insignificant.
-hmm... and of course all the basics... romantic... loves kids... etc
and also, its not like there is anyone who is perfect so we all must learn to accept some faults

-of course these facts can be edited... and I'm sure God will do so appropriately

 

[piglet]

*blushes* i lu lu lu lu like you too, beauty! =D

 

[AmericanGirl]

I have a question for those of you who mentioned tall.... at what height does a girl become 'tall'? I'm guessing it'll differ from person to person
I generally don't think of a guy as being tall until he reaches 6'0", and he doesn't reach very tall status until 6'2"... 6'2" is pretty tall I danced the tango with someone who was 6'2" and it wasn't the easiest thing in the world believe me. He kept telling me to look over his shoulder, which required looking up pretty high.. I shan't ever forget what the roof in that place looked like!
Anyway, just a random question there

 

[horuhe00]

Well, I'm 6'1" and for me, a tall girl would be 5'6" on up.

 

[JPPT1974]

1. First and foremost the person has to be a Christian and live by the Lord's laws and act like him in character and in integrity.
2. Must admit that that person is a human being second and foremost a human being.
3. Must admit that they do make mistakes and sin and fall short of the glory of the Lord.
4. Must not drink, do any and all kinds of drugs, and/or smoke
5. Must not lie, cheat, steal, curse, swear
6. Work together as a team and not a one person show
7. Sympathetic, warm-harted, kind, caring, tender, loving, sweet
8. Loyal and faithful and understanding
9. Stick with through thick and thin, the good, bad, and/or the ugly
10. Doesn't agree with everything and admits it but supports it though
11. Stay true to her/his word and doing it by and with actions
12. Treat others the way they like to be treated
13. Get along with parents and/or in-laws


1. Loves to workout/exercise
2. Loves to cook
3. Loves the NFL
4. Loves to go to the movies
5. Loves to play on the WWW aka The Internet
6. Loves to talk about politcs, NFL, news
7. Loves to give good back massages YUMMY!!
8. Loves to read
9. Loves to write
10. Loves bookstores and libraries
11. Reads the Bible and/or other Christian devotions.

 

[GeorgiaGuy]

Oh yes, another "perfect man" thread. We guys have so few qualifications. Women tend to be looking for a needle in a haystack.

 

[FaithfulServant]

I don't know what kind of mate God has in mind for me and I don't want to put him in a box by saying I will only accept a person with certain qualities. However, if God WERE to let me pick, I would choose someone who:
*had an amazing love for God and everyone around them.
*They would be able to see the good in everyone, and very very optimistic.
*They would lead me spiritually in our marriage, along with our children (if God gave us children!) And they would like kids
*good at the things I am not so good at (aka Math, sense of direction, and money management!)
*we would have amazing lines of communitcation and would be comfortable telling each other important things
*he would love me for who I am, a wonderful unfailing love
*make me smile, even on my toughest days
*have nice legs, lol, hey I like legs!

Anyway, I could go on forever, but I know whoever God has in mind for me will be beyond my wildest dreams

 

[sweetlambofgod]

good personality, cute smile, good body, nice eyes, big heart, christian, loves me for who i am, isn't sex crazy, fun, makes me happy, likes my friends, thinks family is important, good kisser, intelligent, going to college or working, treats me like a queen, trustworthy, honest, loving, leave me love notes and do simple things just to say he loves me, cook, clean, change diapers, get up with children at night, non smoker, non druggy.....

 

[Phrasedefina]

1. First and foremost the person has to be a Christian and live by the Lord's laws and act like him in character and in integrity.



5. Must not lie, cheat, steal, curse, swear

Oh *sheesh* are you serious?

No one can act like God in character and integrity all the time. I have yet to meet someone that can do that for more than 15 minutes!

Must not curse or swear?......Good luck finding him, I mean I really hope you find a guy for you if God meant for it...but maybe you should losen your laso just a tiny, tiny bit.

 

[Lizzi4Christ]

A Godly man. Right now I want a man who I can read the Bible with, pray with and go to church with. I want a man who will be the spiritual leader.

I also want someone that I can talk with. Not talk to, but talk with.

 

[violetstar]

My dream mate is someone I completely respect and admire. So he has too have a great career in the field I love. He has to be smart, funny, caring , honest and loves Jesus christ. He has to be determined and strong will, but would easily sacrifice anything to make me happy. He is my ideal in attractiveness and has a European accent. He is a good person inside and out and would never intentionally hurt anyone. Here is the true quality of my future husband.

 

[Ginsu]

Reading through. Man, some of you have some pretty unrealistic expectations.