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drama...

keyz

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I think drama can be a cycle at times that can go out of control.. e.g. somebody dishes out drama and is dramatic, which makes their special friend dramatic also, which causes the other special friend who dished out the drama to dish out more because of the dramatic special friend. whew that's a lot.
 
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by drama, i think he just means emotional. at least that's what i thought. guys really don't act like they care about things as much as girls cause i don't think they think about stuff like girls do. girls are just biologically more emotional and think things through quite a bit more than guys
 
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blueSKYpilot said:
why do girls love to start drama so much?

especially girls who love Jesus?

You're sounding a little melodramatic...

... are you a girl masquerading as a guy?

:D

I'm NOT serious, I'm just pointing out that you could be considered guilty of the same thing.

Mind you... SOME men I know will pigheadedly cause all sorts of pain and hurt because they refuse to use tact and love in their words and actions... then accuse the people they've hurt of starting big dramas over nothing. I hope you're not similar! :)
 
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lozzie said:
what do you mean by start drama?

im talking about games and stuff.. confusing the heck out of guys, weather intentionally or unintentionally... personally i think when a girl tries and mess with a guys mind... that is a little bit dishonest.. i mean.. nothing wrong with a flirty game.. but when they... nevermind hard to explain. do you know where im gettin at though?
 
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blueSKYpilot said:
im talking about games and stuff.. confusing the heck out of guys, weather intentionally or unintentionally... personally i think when a girl tries and mess with a guys mind... that is a little bit dishonest.. i mean.. nothing wrong with a flirty game.. but when they... nevermind hard to explain. do you know where im gettin at though?
Maybe. I have an idea what you MIGHT be getting at - girls deliberately playing hot and cold with a guy they have no interest in. But then, I've seen a lot of guys whinge about girls 'playing games' when they've simply been reading too much into innocent friendlines... usually out of wishful thinking.

It's a lot easier if you only consider dating girls you're actually good friends with...
 
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