Both are disgusting, I think.
I happen to find both nosepicking and ritualistic cannibalism disgusting. They're not really comparable though. Similarly, leading a dude on and
rape are not comparable, and I have absolutely no idea how anyone could consider them on a similar level.
One starts a fire that needs a Fire Extinguisher to end it; pretty self centered behavior in my books.
The other has an issue with dominance, also a self centered behavior.
...Are you serious? Violating a woman's bodily autonomy and violating her in a very personal, very traumatizing manner in order to get your rocks off is not "self centered behavior". It's
sociopathic and criminal behavior. It doesn't belong in the same category as leading a man on and then saying "no". I feel like I'm repeating myself here, but if your impulse control is so bad that it is
really painful for you to get blueballed, that's on
you. It doesn't make the act of blueballing you criminal, it just means you need some counseling and probably a cold shower. It does not somehow justify rape, or place blueballing on the same level as rape.
And of course, something missed here is that usually, when a woman goes so far as to get naked with someone, and then decides, "Nah, I'd rather not", it's usually not a case of just wanting to tease someone. There's usually a real reason why she yells time-out. If someone is trying to be a cocktease, they usually stop
before either party gets fully naked.
All I can say here on this forum, I'm glad my woman loves me, and I grew up in a less political correct time.
It's not about political correctness, though. It's about
not raping. What does political correctness have to do with anything said here?