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Don't know where I belong

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tteague81

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Have you ever started wondering about a situation that you are in, about why you are there? What is your purpose? Where do you fit in in this situation? I've been starting to wonder about that about my marriage. Where do I fit in? What part do I have to play in it? Why does my husband need me for? Why am I here? I've been so confused lately. He ignores me half the time, always on the computer, playing video games, whatever. He lies to me about everything. Talks bad about me to his 'friends'. Never says 'I love you' anymore unless I say it first and when he says it back, he says it like a little kid. I don't think he's sexually attracted to me anymore. And sometimes I don't think he really loves me anymore. At least not the way I love him. I don't want to talk to him about this because it will go in one ear and out the other. I've tried talking to him about stuff like this before. I feel so lost and don't know what to do. :(
 

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Dear Lord, please be with this dear sister, please give her guidance and direction, help her be strong, please bring peace and love back into their marriage help her husband see how precious his wife is, and to realise how important it is to have your direction and guidance in their marraige as a threefold cord cannot be easily broken, in Jesus name Amen.
 
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May the LORD restore His Agape back into your lives. May the LORD restore that which Satan has tried to destroy. For the foundation of your marriage must be the LORD and I trust that He will once again shed abroad HIS LOVE into the heart of your husband, so that He will love you as Christ loves the church.

May the Spirit of Agape minister True love to you rather than an 'I love You', which is limited to sentimental value alone if there is no demonstration of love. God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whosoever will believe in Him will not perish... (John 3:16).

I pray that the Love in your marriage will not perish. The Lord rebuke you satan, for you are bruised under the feet of the children of God. No weapon which is formed against this marriage shall prosper, and EVERY TONGUE which rises up against this couple, we condemn, and rebuke.

Satan I bind your stonghold of bitterness, selfishness, resentment and unforgiveness you have attempted to keep this couple enslaved in.

For God shall be the light of their salvation,; their very present help; their fortress, strong tower. He is their Mighty God and you are defeated according to the Word of God, by the blood of the Lamb and by the Word of their testimony.

I thank you Lord that the wife will santify the unbelieving (not operating in the Knowledge of God) husband!

I decree and declare, life, restoration, healing and salvation in your marriage.

DO FORGIVE your husband, and just LOVE Him according to the Grace and Faith without measure (John 3:34) myou have received from The Holy Spirit, & again I say LOVE!!! For this will be your ministry of reconcilliation which will restore your marriage thus sayeth the Lord.

"And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not. As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good unto all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith" (Gal 6:9-10)

I will PM you a free Christian resource on 'God's Healing Guarantee' and 'Shifting Major Spiritual Obstacles' for this is spiritual warfare and you will have the victory you receive by the faith of God you CONTINUE to receive. Stand still and see the salvation of the Lord. Be strengthened with might in your inner man.

Amen

God Bless you
 
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I pray ultimately that as GOD sends His Word and you simply, BELIEVE AND RECEIVE IT AS TRUTH BY FAITH, that it may be unto you according to the immeasurable measure of faith God will deposit into you (John 3:34)

You belong in the bosom, refuge and perfect will of the Lord Jesus Christ:

"The LORD hath appeared of old unto me, saying, **Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee**. Again I will build thee, and thou shalt be built, O virgin of Israel: thou shalt again be adorned with thy tabrets, and shalt go forth in the dances of them that make merry" (Jer 31:3-4)

Let this be the cry of your heart to God: "Draw me, will run after thee: the king hath brought me into his chambers: we will be glad and rejoice in thee, we will remember thy love more than wine: the upright love thee" (Songs 1:4)

I pray that as you are OBEDIENT TO THE FAITH (Rom 16:25-26) concerning these scriptures, especially the following, you shall receive the SOUND MIND (2 Tim 1:7) God has promised all those who CHOOSE TO RECEIVE THE SALVATION OF THE LORD JESUS CHRIST:

"He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the LORD, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust. Surely he shall deliver thee from the snare of the fowler, and from the noisome pestilence" (Psa 91:1-3)

I will shortly PM you with a most blessed Christian Resource entitled 'A True Believer's Daily Confession and Thanksgiving Prayer to God Almighty', and I trust and am confident that as you pray this pray from the very depts of your being, allowing your soul to cry out to God, you will receive the HEALING and wholeness which you need!

God Bless you
 
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