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Don't know what to do, was taken advantage of

gflorentino

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I'm currently traveling outside of the country in another country where I don't know the language to well. I was at a popular club this weekend with a friend, and found a gorgeous woman. She didnt speak english and I don't speak spanish, but we danced together for a couple hours. At the end of the night we had a passionate kiss. She gave me her phone number at the end of the night. So I called her today, and through broken english/spanish we decided to exchange emails to easily communicate with online translation. However when I was talking to her she had a sort of manly voice. I found her on facebook, then googled her name, number and email and found out she is all over exotic websites, even worse she was a transvestite:o. I asked her if she was and she admitted to it:o. I'm not gay or have any gay tendecies, I feel sick to my stomach and disgusted. This is something I will never live down. I know this is a difficult and touchy stomach but does anyone have any advice.. I am disgusted with myself :(
 
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Gflorentino, I'm confused. You say you're not gay and don't have homosexual attractions...but your profile lists you as female and you said that you kissed a gorgeous woman? Am I misunderstanding somehow?

In any case, there's not much you can do about something that has already happened. The best you can do is pray, ask forgiveness if you've done something biblically wrong - and then try to move on from the incident, being careful not to repeat your mistake. It's always wise to get to know someone before kissing them; I'm sorry you had to learn that the hard way. Saying a prayer for you.
 
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