Don't know how much longer

[Zita123]

I can hang in there!!!! My 21 year old daughter just had me in tears, not in front of her. She told me that I am a liar and this BP I have is just an excuse for anything.
See, she is naive, very, she thinks that because I take physc meds that I'm a druggie.That was like putting a knife through my heart!!!She is very stubborn and is very set in her ways. She doesn't have a clue about BP nor does she want to.
Well, I can't go on. I have to go
Love and Blesses to you all!!!
Zita123

 

[illudium_phosdex]

I have a 20 yr old step-daughter who knows everything too. Very frustrating. She lived with us up until a year ago and I finally had to tell her that there were just some subjects that were off limits for us to discuss because it always caused an arguement. Seems to me that the teen angst phase doesn't really end as soon as a child hits 20. It goes well into the 20's. I'll be praying for you both.

 

[broken4him]

I am so sorry. We need a soft place to fall and most of us can find that in our home. Know I will be praying for you.

 

[lemonflavor]

Please stay with us and check back in soon.

 

[wonderwaleye]

Dear Zita123


She is young but that doesn't excuse her from following GOD'S WORD.


If she does not respect GOD you cannot expect her to respect you.


FORGIVE, FORGIVE, FORGIVE!!!


When the time is right talk to her and let her know where she is wrong.


Dear, children can cut us to the bone quicker and deeper than anyone. But know in her heart she has a love for you like no other.



EVEN WHEN THIS HAPPENS REMEMBER:






X Even though you can't see him, GOD is there!!! O
( click on the x and drag to the O ) ( then see who is with you ) steven

 

[PrairieGurl]

I can hang in there!!!! My 21 year old daughter just had me in tears, not in front of her. She told me that I am a liar and this BP I have is just an excuse for anything.
See, she is naive, very, she thinks that because I take physc meds that I'm a druggie.That was like putting a knife through my heart!!!She is very stubborn and is very set in her ways. She doesn't have a clue about BP nor does she want to.
Well, I can't go on. I have to go
Love and Blesses to you all!!!
Zita123

Dear Zita,

Our children can be so mean at times. I know my 17 and 18 yr old boys can be 'knife thru the heart' down right mean My oldest refuses to accept that his Mom has struggles due to a mental disease. He surely doesn't want any of his friends to find out. If I'm having a bad day, he asks, (and not in a kind way) "Ya take your drugs Mom" ??? I've told him if he wants to really understand what his Mom is going thru to check into it. He has 'better' things to do with his time. As long as he gets his way...he doesn't care what shape I'm in.

It does hurt Zita. I just go into another room and till I can't anymore.

My heart goes out to you

s & s,
Wendy

 

[Crystal~Rose]

So sorry you are going through this. I wish there was more I could say that would make a difference but I am praying for you and your daughter.

 

[Jeshu]

Sue one of my children also finds it hard to forgive me for being sick. It is hard when this happens. Please hold onto God's love for you and know that our children (or anybody else who hasn't got our illness) cannot know what a terrible things we must go through.

Psalm 42:5

Gerry

 

[Alive again]

Amen to all that has been said!! Praying for you Sue! I think they start maturing around age 25!!!!

 

[Bamboo_Chicken]

I can hang in there!!!! My 21 year old daughter just had me in tears, not in front of her. She told me that I am a liar and this BP I have is just an excuse for anything.
See, she is naive, very, she thinks that because I take physc meds that I'm a druggie.That was like putting a knife through my heart!!!She is very stubborn and is very set in her ways. She doesn't have a clue about BP nor does she want to.
Well, I can't go on. I have to go
Love and Blesses to you all!!!
Zita123

On my car keys I have a keyring that says, "Ask a teenager now while they still know everything' . Zita, I agree with wonderwaleye:

Dear, children can cut us to the bone quicker and deeper than anyone. But know in her heart she has a love for you like no other.

I pray that one day your daughter will realise that what is out of sight is not always out of mind. BPD is very real, however is it possible that she does not want to research this because she's worried that if she does, she'll have to accept that there is no quick way to fix what her mother is going through. I'm really not making excuses though - just know that I'm praying for you and your daughter in this .

I think they start maturing around age 25!!!!

Oh golly...it seems I've got a way to go yet.