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Welcome to the club. I fancy that on some level every one of us feel the same way and it can be a real challenge to overcome that. Sometimes, too, it's your better sense talking and telling you it's better not to share something, at least not at that time.
 
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It is scary to open up, sweetie, and you need to trust people before you can feel safe doing so.
Maybe if you read and post in other people's threads, get to know us and feel comfortable, it will become easier to share your own experience.
Don't try to force yourself to do anything you are not ready for, give yourself time and space, sweetie... it's a long process to learn to trust again.
 
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Take your time, get to know people, then when your ready, open up with someone you can trust. It's still hard for me to open up too. Your trust has been broken, it takes time to learn to trust again. Keep trying, when your ready.
 
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I understand. I have that kind of fear about getting close to anyone. God is working that out in me. I pray that you hide your heart in His presence where there is healing, peace and joy. Father, heal the deep wounds in FIC's heart. In Christ's name, I pray. Amen.
 
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I understand. I have that kind of fear about getting close to anyone. God is working that out in me. I pray that you hide your heart in His presence where there is healing, peace and joy. Father, heal the deep wounds in FIC's heart. In Christ's name, I pray. Amen.

I agree with this prayer
 
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