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It`s summer holiday here. For almost three weeks I have done nothing. I have been surfing on the internet and I rarely went out of the house - when I did this I went to see my psychiatrist or therapist (psychologist) - I don`t know which word to use in English about the last one but it isn`t important. Most of the time I don`t want to do anything but sometimes I want but I`m just too depressed or something to get started. I think I need a person at my age who would like to spend time with me but there isn`t this kind of me person for me. I am not motivated to do something alone and I also have very bad social anxiety. I also think I`m kinda addicted to the computer and I have concentrating difficulties. I don`t know what to do, I`m bored and I`m totally wasting my life but I don`t have will-power, motivation and strength to do something about it.
 

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It`s summer holiday here. For almost three weeks I have done nothing. I have been surfing on the internet and I rarely went out of the house - when I did this I went to see my psychiatrist or therapist (psychologist) - I don`t know which word to use in English about the last one but it isn`t important. Most of the time I don`t want to do anything but sometimes I want but I`m just too depressed or something to get started. I think I need a person at my age who would like to spend time with me but there isn`t this kind of me person for me. I am not motivated to do something alone and I also have very bad social anxiety. I also think I`m kinda addicted to the computer and I have concentrating difficulties. I don`t know what to do, I`m bored and I`m totally wasting my life but I don`t have will-power, motivation and strength to do something about it.

Hello,

The things that you mention are very common to depression. How are you doing with it? Is therapy helping? I am praying for you.

Faithfully,
CH Sacerdote

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Hello,

The things that you mention are very common to depression. How are you doing with it? Is therapy helping? I am praying for you.

Faithfully,
CH Sacerdote

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No, therapy isn`t helping me but I have done it for short time and maybe it`s too early to expect something. Opening up to my therapist is still very hard but I think I`m slowly doing it.
 
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No, therapy isn`t helping me but I have done it for short time and maybe it`s too early to expect something. Opening up to my therapist is still very hard but I think I`m slowly doing it.

Two things that really made a difference when I was severely depressed some years ago were therapy and medication. It took a little time before both started working.

It sounds like you are being proactive in your therapeutic relationship. Like any relationship, it can and should improve over time.

I pray the very best for you and yours.

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