*Blind Post, Purely in response to the OP*
Lemme tell ya a short dialogue:
A man comes to an old preacher
Man: I want to be saved. Will you pray with me?
Preacher: sure, lets go down to the hog pen and pray..
Man: WHAT?! I AM NOT GOING TO PRAY IN A STINKY OLD HOG PEN!
Preacher: Fine. I can't help you then
*man leaves and returns the next day*
*the same conversation occurs, and again for 5 days.*
On the 6th day the man is under such conviction of the Holy Spirit that he decides that anything he has to do is worth salvation. so he comes to the preacher again:
Man: I want to be saved. will you pray with me?
Preacher: sure son, lets go to the Hog pen.
Man: okay, I'll go pray in the hog pen with you.
*the man turns to walk to the Hog pen*
Preacher: son, wait. we don't have to go, you just had to be willing to go.
Moral of the story:
Just as in the story of Nicodemus, for salvation, you must be wholeheartedly willing to give everything up for God. it doesn't mean that God expects you to sell everything and live in poverty. It is a matter of are you willing to give up those things that you have put before God, just as Nicodemus put his wealth and materialistic possessions beore his willingness to serve God.
