You do know that time itself is all "relative", to, well, just about everything in this creation or in this reality right, and could all just be part of the simulation or illusion, etc, or at least time as we know it in this reality or simulation anyway, etc...
Could be very, very, very much more different there, etc, hard for us to imagine I know, but time itself, or time as we know it here, does seem (well, actually "is") relative to just about everything here, and if it exists in any kind of way or shape or form there, could be very much more much "different", so different that we might not even be able to conceive of it now there, cause we can only relate it to what we know of time currently here, etc, and time as we know it here, seems to, and more than likely is, just another part of (or aspect to) this simulation/creation here, etc, or time as we know it here anyway, etc...
Anyway,
For example time there, and where you are in it, etc, could all be related to consciousness and thought and your thoughts, also...? and...? well, let's just say that I pretty much think almost everything is tied into your consciousness and your thoughts and what you think there, etc... Position, speed, distance, the reality around you (events and what is or is not happening or occurring around you or with you, etc), your place in quote/unquote "time", etc, anyway, I think "consciousness" and "thought" pretty much dictates just about everything there, or where you are or also can be here from there, etc, maybe both here and there, etc...
That's partially why we are just not ready for it yet, etc, our thoughts right now are random and sporadic, and until we can learn to direct and/or control our own thoughts or have complete mastery over it/them, including even the subconscious, anyway, were just not ready yet, and part of what might go on there, when we get there or arrive there is learning how to do just that, etc, and know all of that, and/or the nature of all of that, etc, and how to work and/or operate it or all of that in those places there or in that world there, etc, and then from there to here, etc...
Oh and also "feelings" also, we would have to have complete and full knowledge and understanding and mastery over it or those as well, cause of how they affect thought, etc...
Otherwise it could mean or spell real disaster for us, etc...
God Bless!