I see that no one has ventured to answer you! Probably because God was waiting for me to see it and give you an answer! know I would like you to read my article Divorce (why you should or shouldn't do it). It is in the married couples forum just read my answer to the 'Lady in Waiting'
Next, read Ecc 7:16 and 1st John 5:16,17 That will give you Biblical insight as to where I am coming from.
Now I want you to understand that God looks at the heart. What I am about to say, I will say bluntly, God is lenient in situations with every one in the world in different areas of their lives!
On countless occasions I have seen with my own eyes God punish people severly for something they did wrong that He would only 'gently reproach' other people for the same sin.
On more than one occasion, I have been on both ends of that stick! So therefore I am lenient until the spirit guides me and tells me whether judgement should be cast or not!
The statement that you made about the baby being aborted if it is rape, or if the mother is in danger? I have a very prominent and upstanding government man who it is known to many that he was conceived of rape. In this case, ask God what to do! In the case of the mother's life being in danger, some of us in the Bahamas share this view, 'You can always have another baby, but you can't always find another good woman!'
Imagine a young woman age 28 with a child already! Think of all those people who love her and would miss her. 28 years of love and knowledge of a person gone to dust for a baby no one even knows yet? If it was someone I loved, I wouldn't want them to die for a baby that would be in God's arms if it died. Or, pray for a miracle and if God is willing, He can save both mother and baby. It happened with my mother and little sister.
YES! God constantly makes acceptions!